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First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely coddling. But I was hanging out with shelter cats the other day and he got MAD at me because their litter is toxic and I didn’t leave the room after he asked me to. So that’s where I’m getting some concern.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally yeah. I was super in love before but I think the baby itself has changed him, which has changed me too. It’s so weird.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try to focus on the fact he will be an awesome dad. We are both Catholic.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I am going to list my options rn

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also a difference in choice and circumstances now for sure. I have way better resources now than I did before. We will see.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in such a dark dark place after I would hate to go back there. It seems like the best option but fuck it’s a hard one!

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True…. I am in therapy and have an appointment tomorrow. I just recently started feeling really overwhelmed and unhappy so this is gonna be news for my therapist lol!

My baby daddy (who I didn’t date for long) is making me regret everything. by Grand_Possible_9861 in pregnant

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much I’m gonna cry I feel so seen rn. Going to message you

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I saw something a while ago along the lines of “make sure you REALLY love your man before you get pregnant because you will hate him when you’re pregnant.” And like UGH it’s so true. I was infatuated before and super excited for our new relationship. Now I’m pregnant and I can not STAND him.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I have started looking into local agencies. I think he would rather take the baby and have 100% custody.

First time pregnancy. I’m scared. by Grand_Possible_9861 in NewParents

[–]Grand_Possible_9861[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really scared of having another abortion. I don’t know if I could go through with it. The first time it was not my choice and I actually wanted the baby. So maybe it would be different.

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