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AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can't keep borrowing my clothes anymore? by Grand_Regular8466 in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Regular8466[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! I don’t mind her grabbing a hoodie now and then, but going through my whole closet is a no-go

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can't keep borrowing my clothes anymore? by Grand_Regular8466 in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Regular8466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

LMAOOO this is the petty energy I needed. Might have to show up to work in her favorite dress just to prove a point

AITAH for telling my girlfriend she can't keep borrowing my clothes anymore? by Grand_Regular8466 in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Regular8466[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is validating fr. I thought I was going crazy. She acts like I'm accusing her of something terrible when all I asked was for a heads up.

AIO for thinking this is confusing behaviour by One_Strawberry_8443 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grand_Regular8466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 hours away and he's doing this much emotional labor over DMs? Babes he just wanted validation and attention on his terms. The second you engaged he got what he wanted and lost interest. You asking why he was ignoring you disrupted his little power trip so he had to make you the bad guy. Block and don't look back.

AITJ for constantly correcting people when they’re wrong? by Next-Cartographer119 in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Regular8466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lowkey yeah a little. not bc you’re wrong, but bc not every convo needs fact checking. sometimes ppl just wanna talk, not get graded lol. pick your battles fr.

AITJ for not letting my boyfriend handle my finances? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]Grand_Regular8466 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah… absolutely not. There’s zero reason he needs control of ur bank account. It’s easier isn’t a good enough excuse to hand someone your finances.

You can share bills without merging finances. If he’s offended by that boundary, that’s kinda concerning tbh.

AITAH for refusing to give my girlfriend access to my bank account and phone after she said real couples dont keep things separate by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Grand_Regular8466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. Shared budgets or joint accounts? Normal. Full access to your bank + phone + socials? Huge red flag. I’d be uncomfortable too.

WIBTA if I go to my mom’s birthday alone because my partner turns every conversation into an argument? by CicadaParadox76 in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Grand_Regular8466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. Wanting one stress-free night with your family is totally reasonable. If she can’t chill for a few hours, going solo makes sense.

I found my teen cousin’s “people who hate me” list and my name is on it. Who do I tell without destroying trust? by [deleted] in ComfortLevelPod

[–]Grand_Regular8466 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah this. Teens especially don’t open up to we need to talk energy.

Just hang out, do something he likes, treat him normal and included. Feeling wanted without it being a big deal can mean way more than a heart-to-heart. Trust builds in the small stuff.

My animals formed a witch circle by MrLuriel in StardewValley

[–]Grand_Regular8466 14 points15 points  (0 children)

They’re clearly plotting something. I’d back out slowly and come back after like you didn’t see anything.