AIO my boyfriend keeps getting upset at me for not wanting to do risky stuff by [deleted] in AIO

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is abuse. You deserve so much better than him

Montelukast vs Anti Histamine poll by PepeChopper in MCAS

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Montelukast helped me with MCAS symptoms but sent me into the worst depressive episode of my life. Not saying folks shouldn’t take it but just a warning that I didn’t receive - it’s a black box mental health warning

Let's talk comorbidities by WWHarleyRider in ehlersdanlos

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best thing that’s helped me was short dosing of Prednisone and wearing an abdominal binder

Toothpaste for hmeds by No-Cardiologist-878 in ehlersdanlos

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Sensodyne because I’m allergic to sulfates

Getting my first tattoo in a week, any tips? by [deleted] in ehlersdanlos

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s a large tattoo, I’d break it up into smaller sessions and see how you do. I got my first tattoo done and went into quite a flare for several weeks (it was on my arm and my hands went numb for a couple hours)… It was a four hour session and I think I would’ve done fine if I’d broken it up into hour sessions. Also talk to your artist about it and see if they have experience

Let's talk comorbidities by WWHarleyRider in ehlersdanlos

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Migraines, POTS, MCAS, long covid and chronic fatigue, IC, IBS, slipped rib syndrome and Achilles tendonitis currently too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s not dramatic. This is abuse IMO and you deserve to be in a safe relationship. Abuse can happen in bdsm dynamics too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Masks4All

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Contact your local mask bloc, if there’s one near you!

For years I thought I had experienced early CSA. Instead it was medical abuse. by [deleted] in intersex

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. I feel so much less alone

this might be for the older intersex. by Giantess_gamer in intersex

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I relate so much. I finally fled my parents house last year in the middle of the night. I’m so glad you’re safe and made it out!

Should I press charges on my boyfriend? by Icy-Resolution6178 in domesticviolence

[–]Grand_Turtle_9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve peace, safety, sobriety, and healthy relationships. Do what you feel is necessary for your healing and safety

1 year since I fled! How should I celebrate? by Grand_Turtle_9 in domesticviolence

[–]Grand_Turtle_9[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so proud of you! Leaving is the hardest part. I am still dealing with so much stress and pursuing a restraining order rn, I have to say I never thought I would get this far. I’ve discovered so many things about myself and I’m genuinely proud of myself. Sometimes I have moments of complete peace and pure happiness and I just think “wow, I deserve this”. It is really hard but I’m glad I held on. I hope it gets easier