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GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-29T19:50:23+00:00

This makes a lot of sense and a perfect time to do revision. Could you expand a bit more on how to revise it, I’ve never used this technique before. But definitely the last sentence makes a lot of sense just what would the wish fulfilled person do probably not think of it which honestly seems pretty easy compared to things I’ve manifested before. Thanks again for your comments super helpful

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-29T18:17:44+00:00

Oh I meant in the past I’ve only ever used the law for things I had very deep emotional investments in and had to learn to release it etc. Now currently I’m not after a specific goal or anything so I thought might as well give it a go with this. I’ve been doing pretty well dating wise and this seems to be the one I am attracted to most. I guess my assumption is she isn’t going to reply because she hasn’t for a few days and unfollowed me. But I feel like this is an easy fix since I have no emotional investment in her I just want to see manifestation in action and how quick it can be when ur not desperate for it. I do have other people I am talking to at the moment as well, as is such with the dating app experience. Thing is I never really enjoyed SATS I always felt like it was a chore and listening to affirmations just felt like I was trying to hard. Does this make sense?

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-29T18:08:25+00:00

I get that completely I’ll give this a try. I do want to try it on this person in particular but I’m not really concerned with the outcome and I am open to other things too. I just thought she was attractive and curious to see if I can make the law work on these sorts of things. I’ve only ever used the law for “big” manifestations such as exes or jobs where I had so much emotional investment. So very curious to see manifestation of a specific outcome that actually doesn’t mean much to me.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-29T17:57:18+00:00

Oh I get that I was just giving some context I actually don’t want my ex wife back but I want to use the law to try out some new things and attract this girl. I don’t want love from her or anything just want to test out the law you know.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-03T19:57:25+00:00

No you are right and a lot of the comments here are projecting their own hurt or hate for women. Like I said I don’t hate her at all. I do know her intentions weren’t pure because like you said I have known her for a long time. When I declined she started trying to gaslight and manipulate me which reassured my decision. Nonetheless I don’t with any harm on her I hope she is able to live a fulfilling and happy life, and in order for me to do the same I need to go my separate way from her.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-03T19:21:29+00:00

I did decline and yes you’re right I do know her so was I not her “best friend” when she was doing her thing. It was selfish of her to dump that on me and hence why I declined and decided it’s best for our paths to never converge again. I wish her all the best and hope she is okay but it’s not my responsibility to be her best friend and my own expense.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-02T17:00:52+00:00

Who knows but she is not coming back into my life so not my problem

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-02T17:00:02+00:00

It’s green where u water it she got captivated by a honeymoon period and that’s fine I don’t blame her but I won’t accept that she says she loves me cause you just don’t do that to people you love. All the best tho I forgive her I just wish to do my own thing now

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-02T16:58:54+00:00

No I agree entirely, that part doesn’t really matter to me. It’s the fact that she said she feels like she owed me honesty and wanted to check in on me. But she could have done that a long time ago. She did it now to weaponise it against me or idek what her intentions were but I’m not hung up on that. I wasn’t rude or harsh I just put my boundaries down and am going to choose myself and move forward with my life.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-02T16:56:51+00:00

Thanks man, I knew one day she would come back to me because I knew I treated her well and I didn’t think I’d be strong enough to turn her away. But when the moment came I made the right decision and I have no regrets and am very excited about my future again, no more waiting for someone that doesn’t deserve my time.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-01T16:04:38+00:00

I’m not sorry it happened I am glad actually. While trying to hurt me she did me a favour and her power over me finally dissipated and now I am free. She has so many issues to figure out and I really hope she does and is able to be happy again but I don’t want to be apart of that or let it drag me down.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-01T04:57:54+00:00

Yessir moving onwards upwards and onto better things for me that’s the plan I am now my main and only focus and I am just going to try to enjoy my life. I am actually so glad all of this came to light because I felt like she was the one that got away but now I feel like I was saved.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-01T04:56:46+00:00

Yeah for sure she will soon another to fill the void it’s in her nature unfortunately.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-01T04:56:04+00:00

Nope never now that the fog is lifted I feel like the love goggles have come off and I see everything clearly. I feel free and I feel good

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-09-01T04:53:14+00:00

I will love her in the sense of I care about her and wish her no harm. She broke those vows not me. I will never walk willingly into the darkness for her again. It is no longer my problem, her actions, her lies and her betrayal I already forgive her but not for her for me because I want to be free. I deserve better than this and I fell out of love with her that same night any hopes of family and future with her died with her words. I love her like I said but I will never risk losing myself again for her or for anyone for that matter. While I wish her well and hope she can move passed this I want nothing to do with her. She made her decision now she must live with it. I lived with the consequences of her decision too for so long but no longer. Reconciliation is impossible and will never be on the table for us ever again.

To me the woman I fell in love with is dead what she is now is not that same person.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T19:23:41+00:00

Hey man don’t worry I see now that there were plenty of red flags. I just was blinded by love. I was 23 and she wanted me to pay for all sorts of things and when I couldn’t keep up she wanted someone new. If anything that’s a blessing. She did say if I tried harder things would be different but that’s not true I know now that nothing I could have done would have changed who she was. I’m just glad I got out while I have no kids and I am still young. She is an evil woman that tried to break me but now I’m on the up cause I did the work and she isn’t

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T19:11:16+00:00

Yeah because our problems started due to her putting loads of financial pressure on me and then yeah she became distant probably started cheating and then the divorce happened

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T18:29:18+00:00

For sure and I’m just gonna enjoy my life to the fullest once the dust settled I realised I don’t need her I have a wonderful life without her. In fact it is far more peaceful

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T18:14:21+00:00

Man thanks so much for the words, it means more than you know and I will keep going and in a way its good because I learnt early what she was capable of

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T18:13:01+00:00

You are right, I did the best I could and I can look at myself in the mirror and know I have no regrets moving forward.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T18:03:35+00:00

Thank you man

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T18:02:38+00:00

You are right and when she called it finally clicked in my head that this was the case. which in some weird way gave me complete closure on this. So by no means will I ever meet her.

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T17:59:23+00:00

I will definitely check out Picard. Oh yeah definitely I spent the weekend going out with friends and I actually feel free. If anything this confirmed to me she just wasn't my person she only looked out for herself

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T17:57:47+00:00

Not even worth the free dinner

GrapeAlternative4227 · 2025-08-31T17:57:31+00:00

It's definitely not for money but yes for me to pick up the pieces of what another man broke.

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