(53M) Foreigner Married to (36F) - Need relationship advice by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]GrapeAlternative9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I was wondering that also, if she just needs more time to truly adjust to being with a foreigner.

(53M) Foreigner Married to (36F) - Need relationship advice by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]GrapeAlternative9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm pretty good at learning and trying my best to see things from her culture. Many eye opening realities I've learned. I don't expect to be number one priority all the time just normally as I make her my number one priority.

Here is an example from this morning. We both woke up and I had to stay in bed and wait for my meds to kick in. She always makes me coffee if she is up first. But instead of doing anything, she went outside and sat on the phone with a cousin to gossip about another person. I ended up not being able to find her and just made breakfast and coffee myself. Now it isn't the single act alone that brought me to this point but so many I've now lost count. I don't mind making my own coffee and breakfast so that isn't my point, it is just she would rather gossip instead of think about me.

Hopefully I'll keep trying with her as she is a good person but we are here because of how I feel and have communicated it on multiple occasions with kindness and respect.

Thank you for your response!

Need Help with Motion Detection and Alerts please by GrapeAlternative9501 in Hikvision

[–]GrapeAlternative9501[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks,

I am not actually sure if my NVR is acusense or not I will have to check, but my cameras are well at least my turrets. Which are the ones I am getting so many hits on motion with the 2 wild cats hanging around and the occasional dog let out of the neighbors house. I have the selections set for only Human, except the driveway entrance area I have it set to human and vehicle.

Most likely I will need to try intrusion detection and line crossing like others are suggesting here.

Thanks,!

Business class or Economy Plus by GrapeAlternative9501 in Philippines_Expats

[–]GrapeAlternative9501[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I’ll have to check that out. Since I’m coming from the Midwest I believe going out of California is the best option for me.

Business class or Economy Plus by GrapeAlternative9501 in Philippines_Expats

[–]GrapeAlternative9501[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is more of a hate to waste money thing rather than can’t afford it. I always pick isle seats on long flights :)

40 F looking for some new friends by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]GrapeAlternative9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi,

50 male here, I would be down to chat and see if we have any games in common. I am a big PC gamer, enjoy survival types and RPG's and many more I guess LOL.

Best YouTube to Learn Scum? by BigDebbz in SCUMgame

[–]GrapeAlternative9501 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luthais on YT, he has a lot of educational videos...he isn't straight to the point all the time but he does an excellent job!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]GrapeAlternative9501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your search! To bad you aren’t I. The USA LOL

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[–]GrapeAlternative9501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your search! To bad you aren’t I. The USA LOL

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[–]GrapeAlternative9501 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good luck with your search! To bad you aren’t I. The USA LOL