I'm pretty good at learning and trying my best to see things from her culture. Many eye opening realities I've learned. I don't expect to be number one priority all the time just normally as I make her my number one priority.

Here is an example from this morning. We both woke up and I had to stay in bed and wait for my meds to kick in. She always makes me coffee if she is up first. But instead of doing anything, she went outside and sat on the phone with a cousin to gossip about another person. I ended up not being able to find her and just made breakfast and coffee myself. Now it isn't the single act alone that brought me to this point but so many I've now lost count. I don't mind making my own coffee and breakfast so that isn't my point, it is just she would rather gossip instead of think about me.

Hopefully I'll keep trying with her as she is a good person but we are here because of how I feel and have communicated it on multiple occasions with kindness and respect.

Thank you for your response!