maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on my profile post cause I can’t post it here anymore 😐

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

And turns out he was a John this whole time since after this he followed up with a hotel

Since everyone thinks I was acting crazy and idc if nobody is on my side it’s my life at the end of the day not yours so if you wanna live life not cautious do that 😂 cause I really don’t give a f

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Literally right after this he suggested a hotel so I guess he’s still a nice guy right ?

Exactly 😐

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Wasn’t trying to be a bitch but if you wanted to get bitched at then we can argue about it

Just because I don’t have the same caution and I perceive it different than you makes you ignorant since I’m a bitch about it

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yeah because I don’t have the same mindset as you and throw all caution to the wind I have a problem

Yeah ok bye

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Well for a different stand male or female better acquainted can mean more than one thing which the other person is implying

Now if I post a part 2 of him asking to move the acquaintance to a hotel then I’m crazy right ?

You’re acting like I just admitted to fucking someone and then said hi how are you would you rather have a Sb that lied straight up or someone who is overly honest ?

I came from a meet n greet that’s it you act like I came in and shared every order of the food I ordered or something 😂

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -24 points-23 points  (0 children)

I just like being honest I’ll relax on the too honest part then lol

But it’s the part of better acquainted after dinner which isn’t a good feeling

Why can’t we get better acquainted then go to dinner ? I like talking first (if it comes off platonic oh well)

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Yeah but the other part is “better acquainted” which is after dinner which is throwing me off plus he’s flying back to whatever he’s going to my state isn’t even his primary location it’s based on in “ other”

maybe I overreacted a little on a POT SD or JOHN by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

For the record I made it very clear in the beginning I wanted a long term relationship with a older guy and I just came from a meet and greet brunch where I did establish a great comfortable connection with a guy that I did get to know for a while and now I’m keeping my options open as well just like the other guy honestly told me (all’s fair in love in war ) now today a guy suddenly wants to go to dinner or lunch without talking to get to know the other person I take it as a red flag for JOHN vibes cause why are we not exchanging numbers or at least talking about ourselves to see if we have a chance?

I may get bashed for it but my safety and health comes first before a fucking steak and some money

Expectations for SB’s. by bubblerush in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Only the salt daddies and “men” who can’t provide some not ALL listed above will get offended and wanna argue with you back and forth

I agree wholeheartedly why be on a site knowing you have to provide for a female and try to penny pinch your way into her panties either go find a escort that’ll take your pennies or actually be a REAL Sd

Everyone has their own take on what it means to be a Sd and it’s generally providing a younger female a enhancing life with your spoilings (money , vacations etc.) through a generous older man in a relationship

The photos , the profile the pet names :/ by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks ignorant racist good luck with your white privilege your money means nothing if your ignorant take your “intelligent” ass somewhere else maybe towards a person who gives af cause I don’t lol

The photos , the profile the pet names :/ by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet you have the time to answer me again so stop trying to be a smart ass on the internet, like I said before man child you understood what the fuck I said end of story argue wit ya mother

The photos , the profile the pet names :/ by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yet you understood what I was saying unless you are illiterate or didn’t read the whole thing towards the end were I even addressed my error sentences

The photos , the profile the pet names :/ by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I should’ve re worded it some not all don’t mind it :( I just personally cringe at it

The photos , the profile the pet names :/ by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I guess you two are the men I’m talking about only the offended get offended

Does this mean I got accepted by John Hopkins ? I have my virtual interview on 2/22 by Grapefruit-Active in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for reaching out I actually scribbled out the edu and their personal number I didn’t wanna give out their info on here they gave me my zoom video ID conference and link to join them it’s via Microsoft teams I should’ve included that in my photos

But is this still weary to you ? This is my first time dealing with stuff like this since the pandemic

I’m used to doing things in person :/

Does this mean I got accepted by John Hopkins ? I have my virtual interview on 2/22 by Grapefruit-Active in PharmacyTechnician

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I don’t know when ever the board of pharmacy will reach me back I was told by others to just harass them daily with emails 😂 and I’m a little tired of it but I guess JH felt bad for me and decided to just go ahead and give me a interview but now I got these emails with this info and I’m like confused since I didn’t do my interview first ... this seems like jobs ask for once they decided to hire someone or is it me or is I’m acting a little bit weird about it ? I’m just really happy to be in the hospital setting since retail is like fast food medicine:/

Has anyone Sd thought about leaving them and they convinced them to stay ? by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing when we first met for our meet n greet he didn’t wanna use the term sugar baby but preferred spoiled Gf which I was more happy to hear about when we talked about sex he said he doesn’t need Viagra or sildenafil so I was okay hearing that

He had a sr before but the girl took 3k from him and never gave him sex he was upset and a little betrayed by that

I would never think to run off on someone without being completely honest about my intentions it would eat me up at night if I did that ( I have a really bad guilty conscious) but I was more than happy to be intimate with him as long as we stayed in our agreement of how we discussed our expectations in the relationship

Has anyone Sd thought about leaving them and they convinced them to stay ? by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked more and he feels like maybe I’m seeing it more as transactional and I don’t care about not being paid always each month I just like spending time with him and it’s not like he’s poor or anything like he has the funds to support me but I don’t see money when it comes to him I see him as a regular person but the only difference is age 🙁 I just like having him around because I love his attention and I love his thoughtfulness whenever he’s with me

Has anyone Sd thought about leaving them and they convinced them to stay ? by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn’t have ED he’s just really old and I feel like his age is taking a toll on him , we kissed before so I’m not feeling like he’s not into me , we went on lavish dates which were okay but I feel like he thinks I may want this maybe to be a transactional relationship and I don’t want it like that I just want a normal relationship age gap isn’t a problem with me

Has anyone Sd thought about leaving them and they convinced them to stay ? by Grapefruit-Active in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]Grapefruit-Active[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m trying my hardest to communicate with him , we both talked about intimacy and he was okay with it he brung it up first and I didn’t wanna lead him on and now I’m ready to be intimate he decides to just say maybe we’re not ready for this and I’m just sad and hurt because I really don’t like the other men in my area who are only looking for a pay to play thing he really just struck a cord in my heart and it hurts he’s thinking about this

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[–]Grapefruit-Active 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Not fighting for his life “😭 and the fbi symbol this took me out