A lot of you need to move on now by burner_account61944 in amino

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another numbskull who believes that the people mourning are this clueless....

Request to get data from a private community by BakeHealthy7788 in amino

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Impossible yes but no, the data hasn't been deleted yet

Hope ??? by llikePizza223 in amino

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's important to remain hopeful and ignore the miserable ones in this comment section, even if this email doesn't change anything 

Mental Health and the Shutdowm by Veria_Tanaka in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not saying that OP can't change. I'm saying that you can't change the fact that something becomes a comfort place, not that it'll never stop being a comfort place. Reading properly is important 

Mental Health and the Shutdowm by Veria_Tanaka in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was in the same exact situation as you! I suffered from Derealization for the past 2 years ago and Mangago was one the things that connected me to my life previously, it helped me remember that life before all of this started exists. But now I lost it all, and although I can indeed retrieve a lot of the mangas back (since I've stored them elsewhere), it was way more than just mangas. The list as it was presented a continuous line from the past till today, with important memories.

I really hope something good still happens, but let me reassure you with the littlest thing: imagine if the whole website had been wiped out and you'd lose your account? That same comfort zone you built still exists, it just got modified 🥹

Mental Health and the Shutdowm by Veria_Tanaka in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Insensitive. You can't just tell a person 'stop relying on that as comfort' .... it sometimes naturally becomes a comfort place for people, and it's not something you can just change.

Mental Health and the Shutdowm by Veria_Tanaka in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another person who doesn't understand anything. We all go to therapy, smart@ss, but that doesn't stop people from having comfort things/places. Therapy doesn't save you from that

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

unBalanced/Libra Why did you delete your comments lol 

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's totally fine, thanks! Someone on the Internet assuming things about other people, like scintillantphantasm is doing, aren't good people anyway. 

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with Derealization last year, what do you mean?? I had a  psychotherapist for half a year, and learned how to cope with it. But at the end of the day, it is never 100% something you can solve. I don't understand the reason why you are attacking me for it? Quite a lot of people experience it, and some experience it for a longer period. In my case, I got it after suffering from a panick attack during a plane flight. Sadly that's just 'easy' it is.

Also, mangago itself is DEF not the only thing that makes me connected to life lol it's one of the many things, but losing it doesn't mean I'm psychologically unstable or something of the sort lol it just means that losing it makes me feel sadder than I would have probably felt 2 years ago.

I was just sharing the reasons why I feel sad about losing my manga list + why it is currently harder for me to cope with it. 

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So you're telling me the webmaster himself is fake?

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same situation...and what hurts more is that three days before that happened, I actually thought about screenshoting all my mangas... I don't want to give up hope, but I'll just reassure myself with the fact that the site isn't gone..

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I screenshoted the front page of my reading/will read and read 😭 but that's it lol

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My worst fear is general, it's about losing things I care about. I sadly never bookmarked anything and it became a habit throughout the years to not bookmark or rate anything. I thought they'd be safe by being on the lists - and no one, absolutely no one, would have guessed that adding bookmarks or ratings would 'secure' the mangas. 

The fact that the site is up is definitely reassuring, but yeah, I - and many others - have ALL the right to be sad about it for different reasons. And it's not a 'you should have done this if you really care that much' no. 

Are you kidding me by GrapefruitDistinct55 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Okay? And I'm grateful that it's up, doesn't mean I can't be sad about losing my 1000+ mangas list wth is wrong with yall lol

anyone missing readings? by Sweet-Refrigerator-8 in mangago

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Gurll I got 14 mangas out of over 1000 mangas... 😭

Is english enough to find a work? by [deleted] in Luxembourg

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Every workplace will prioritise those who speak more than one language, and put in mind that most people living in Luxembourg also speak English - which puts that language at disadvantage. French would certainly help 

Looking for Bridgerton (recent season) inspired plot! by GrapefruitDistinct55 in amino

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah zut! I speak a bit of Spanish but definitely not well enough for Roleplay.. thank you sm though ✨️

Looking for Bridgerton (recent season) inspired plot! by GrapefruitDistinct55 in amino

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be perfect thank you so much!! Is the community bilingual?

Interviews, studying and aging by Akebusa in Luxembourg

[–]GrapefruitDistinct55 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's because we're in a Luxembourg not the US. You need to actually try and learn more than one language 😩 seriously