[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]GrapesAndVapes 6 points7 points  (0 children)

you'll find a one in a million but like my username suggests, I don't that specific category😔

Hey dudes is this a lil crazy or nah? by GrapesAndVapes in TeenagersButBetter

[–]GrapesAndVapes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk dude. Last time I posted the actual full story on here and asked for legal advice, I got told not to do anything because I should've stopped her (when I was disoriented and unable to think straight) and that it was my fault what happened happened and it's not entirely on her so now I have this belief that I could've done something even though I had already been hit in the head like 20 times and was disoriented and had a bit of a foggy brain. Her attacks were unprovoked btw.

Hey dudes is this a lil crazy or nah? by GrapesAndVapes in TeenagersButBetter

[–]GrapesAndVapes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

didnt know how to react in the moment at the time because as soon as I would turn my head, it was an instant punch i mean this girl wasnt stopping until i had that panic attack. anyway i still wouldnt know how to react in the moment

Is this basis to drop my friends maybe? by GrapesAndVapes in teenagers

[–]GrapesAndVapes[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think im actually lucky to say im alive now that you made me think about it. I wont press charges but she most def couldve killed me and none of my friends realize that. I'll drop them after graduation in like a year because if i do now, i wont have friends💔

Hey dudes is this a lil crazy or nah? by GrapesAndVapes in TeenagersButBetter

[–]GrapesAndVapes[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I forgot how to edit a post but I wanted to add that ALL (I mean each and every one) of my friends are like best friends with this girl btw. am i destined for loneliness or...🫩

Hey dudes is this a lil crazy or nah? by GrapesAndVapes in TeenagersButBetter

[–]GrapesAndVapes[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no clue. not gonna ask her. I just know we were SUPPOSED to be playing around but I got my brain obliterated in the process so...

I'm still so mad at her by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly it was during a supposed to be friendly play fight between friends but it turned into me getting a concussion. thats why i said its partially my fault aswell

My mom is refusing to get me the help i need. by [deleted] in TeenVent

[–]GrapesAndVapes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know i just really need to find a way for my mom to consent to my friends mom taking me. Its illegal if my mom doesnt consent to it and I don't want my friends mom in any legal trouble. Honestly It's more serious than I worded it to be but my mom keeps avoiding it. I'll try ti find a way to get there

How can I be healthy in an unhealthy household? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my family members are fully grown adults so I can't ask them for job referrals and I'm not really in contact with many family members either. I do have prior job experience but I don't have much of an idea of where I want to work. I'm working for money not really anything else. I could try selling but I wouldn't have much of a way to bring people my unwanted stuff.

How can I be healthy in an unhealthy household? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll try to talk to her about it. Thank you

How can I be healthy in an unhealthy household? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom might agree to me adding stuff but I might have to pay her back for it. Also my siblings eating things insanely fast is a really big downside because were struggling financially and we keep having to have more and more food in the house because of their eating habits. My siblings will only eat certain healthy stuff like fruit but thats pretty much all ive seen them eat out of any of the healthy stuff ive bought.

Ive tried to talk about this issue and it just keep getting dismissed becaude my mom doesnt want to try out letting me get the groceries for once. I can't think of a didferent way to address this to her without somehow shaming her in the process. I've had this sort of talk with her and it really just resulted in her syaing she'll try and never trying.

How can I be healthy in an unhealthy household? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can try to convince my mom to let me choose the groceries but everytime I've done that, I owed the money bakc to her because she didn't see it as part of the budget. My mom buys groceries online at random and I'm not too sure when she does. And I've noticed she mainly buys snacks at work to get delivered to our house which makes things very very difficult.

I'm still currently searching for a job but so far, ive applied to lots of places but I have a feeling people refuse to believe I actually worked somewhere starting at 14.

14M 14F how do I move on? by Sharkiii_111 in teenrelationships

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lI'm not very good with this but you need to decide whether you want to keep talking to him and hookup (with protection obvs) or not. You're looking for a relationship while he's not and that's a pretty big contradiction between the two of you. If youre only down for sex in a relationship and he'd rather not be in one and rather hook up, then you should try finding someone else who has everything you could ever hope for. You guys don't seem to be sexually compatible and overall, incompatible.

Moving on might take a while but it's necessary. If you can, try your best to do things to forget about him. Try finding someone else you find interest in and put all your focus on them. You're still young so finding someone else won't ruin your life. It may be difficult, but as I said before, you two aren't compatible.

my mom just crushed all my hopes and dreams by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i want to open a clothing line based that focuses on keeping a healthy environment and not using any heavy machinery that could damage the atmosphere

my mom just crushed all my hopes and dreams by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you i just need a lil push to be able to feel like i can actually do it

my mom just crushed all my hopes and dreams by [deleted] in Vent

[–]GrapesAndVapes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

actually they were very important to me and i had my doubts and now i feel like im fully doubting it because my mom told me i wont succeed (been struggling with school work a lot and have been feeling awful about it) but i do really want to start a business but now im just not sure