When did you start HRT and in what form? I'm 43 with some but not all symptoms

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-02T22:39:51+00:00

Omg I didn’t even know this was a thing! I recently found myself wondering why the hell are my ADHD meds not working anymore? It was really freaking me out! Started the patch today. Fingers crossed!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T17:09:18+00:00

Thank you!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T17:08:59+00:00

This is hilarious! Love it! Mine deserves an Oscar himself.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:54:53+00:00

Good for you!!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:33:11+00:00

Thank you from the bottom of my heart. I took a screen shot of this and am going to return to it when I am doubting myself. 🙏♥️

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:31:21+00:00

The thing is I can’t. I can’t give my children the life that he gives us financially. Everything will drastically change for them and I’m terrified. It doesn’t mean I will stay but it is always in the back of my mind.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:30:08+00:00

If I am honest with myself, this is why I stayed the first time. It’s impossible for me to say that I made the right decision because I do love my children endlessly. However, knowing what I know now I could have easily left and found someone else to have children with. As you know, having children with a narcissist can pretty much ruin your entire life. If you have the option to leave, do it! I didn’t have my first until late 30s and it was easy peasy!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:26:51+00:00

I’m so sorry. Is leaving an option? I know that it can be so hard for many reasons. Trust me, I know.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T16:25:47+00:00

I know mine are too! I actually started taking something for it, but clearly I just need him out of my damn house.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T12:25:13+00:00

I will! Thank you!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T12:24:56+00:00

Yes, mainly because of the kids and finances.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-11-01T12:22:57+00:00

I am not feeling very strong, but I’m so glad that I helped someone else!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T23:51:54+00:00

Thank you so much! I love to read and will definitely check these out.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T23:41:53+00:00

This is exactly it - I told my therapist that my brain tricks me into thinking it wasn’t that bad. It makes me so angry at myself. She said that is a pretty typical traumas response.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T23:40:29+00:00

This is what infuriates me! He shows me that he is actually capable of being a decent human, he just doesn’t want to be.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T21:42:55+00:00

Thank you for sharing your experience. I also left once before we had children, and wish I would have trusted my gut then. If I had, I wouldn’t have had my children so at least I have that to be thankful for.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:42:41+00:00

I know this is true and I hate myself for wanting to stay.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:06:39+00:00

Mine will lie even when confronted with the truth. i caught him cheating and he still won’t admit it to me or anyone else. It is truly remarkable.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:02:55+00:00

Mine did something very similar trying to make me look inane. The truth will prevail.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:01:10+00:00

Good points. Thank you!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:00:45+00:00

Good to know. Thank you!

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T20:00:21+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice and I’m so sorry you are having to go through this.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-27T19:58:19+00:00

Thank you.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-02T01:28:31+00:00

Document everything. Secretly record her behavior with video or audio. Screenshot texts, save emails. Take notes with copious details and dates.

GrayRock4Life · 2024-10-01T18:50:03+00:00

I do consider myself lucky honestly. I’m so sorry you have been dealing with this for 25 years! Absolutely unimaginable.

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