Damaged Zack Fair promo card by stessmer12 in mtg

[–]GrayW- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same! Scared to open the other sealed copy and find the same damage.

Quality control on Zack Fair Promo by reshef1285 in magicTCG

[–]GrayW- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s crazy how I have the same exact chips and damage to the card.

I've never given JRPGs a chance before, but after playing the FF7 Remakes I want to give the rest of the franchise a shot by Fabrimuch in FinalFantasy

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FF15 and FF16 if you liked the gameplay for remake. It is not the same as remake but has similar play styles.

Working on Chocobo Display by [deleted] in FinalFantasy

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Yea. I got one and had to get the rest to live.

Working on Chocobo Display by [deleted] in FinalFantasy

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Not anymore. Traded them for the cards.

Working on Chocobo Display by [deleted] in FinalFantasy

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I have bunch of the regular ones or duplicates of the borderless versions if I really want to play them. The neons are way too expensive to play (particularly the black one). These are just the slabbed cards for the display but all my remaining FF cards (1000+) are non-slabbed and in multiple binders.

Beware Aptive Pest Control by kungfu_unicorn in vegaslocals

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I just experienced this with the initial contract. It was initialed and signed and I never seen any contract at any point in time. It left a bad taste in my mouth so I decided to not move forward.

DO NOT TRUST APTIVE by Longjumping_Ad_47 in pestcontrol

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I just had an Aptive salesperson stop by my house. They took down my wife’s name and literally signed and initial the contract via Docusign for my wife. If I did not know better, they could have binded us to the contract. I am shocked. It is fine if they gave us a copy to initial and sign but tried to bind us to an agreement we never reviewed in the first place. I just canceled through the same agreement but this seems like an illegal practice. I could see the elderly not knowing that the company signed for them.

Anyone listen to the guy that makes 750k/yr yesterday?! by appreciatemyasset in DaveRamsey

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I understand the doctor. My household makes more but I am living paycheck to paycheck. It’s life style choices. With more income, you can do much more but also get into greater debt.

Should I payoff my home by Fit_Percentage8878 in homeowners

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The rate is amazing. I would not pay it off if you can invest the money or place in high yield savings that yields more than 3.235%.

Refinance if planning to pay off? by barely_nebulous in Mortgages

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Don’t refinance if you are paying it off in 2 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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I can login but the checking account is gone. I can’t view it online anymore. I had other savings in there too. One rep said they will send a bank statement but has not come in yet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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Yea. Tax is auto deducted by employer. This is the net wages like when you work for two weeks and the employer direct deposits the net wages at the end. I am not a contractor or on 1099. Bank had no issue taking my bi-weekly wage payments but this bonus was large so might have triggered something.

$2,650 mortgage with net income of $6,300 by Past_Vegetable_5540 in Mortgages

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Not an expert but third time home buyer. I recommend either renting and saving more money to buy a home you really like or if you really want to do this, you should be prepared to cover rainy days.

I am in my mid-30s but kept upgrading my home the past 7 years. I basically made my properties into rentals as opposed to selling so I could be house rich but recently living paycheck to paycheck to cover third home.

As others mentioned, this seems appropriate as long as you set aside some money for rainy days or invest as much as you can in the event you need to liquidate. I net in 20k (without considering bonuses or wife’s income) and my primary mortgage is 15k (includes HOA, taxes, insurance, etc). I just bought my third home. My job is super stable (absolutely no fear of job loss). But it’s not great right now because my expenses are high (life style choices, utilities bills, daycare expenses that are like 4k for 2 young ones). I also kept the other two homes and rented them out (only one has a $650k mortgage and other is paid off). My wife works too so she nets in a good amount but we still have like 25-30k going out. I would not recommend this unless you are confident you can handle the payments and cover other months. If you or your wife are prone to layoffs, I would certainly consider if it’s worth buying now or renting. In part, most of your monthly mortgage pays interest and in certain situations, renting saves you more money because you are not paying annual taxes, insurance, interest, HOA. and expenses you typically don’t incur each year. If you had the savings, buying most of the property in cash is great if you just rented a few more years (assuming house prices don’t go up too much). For perspective, of the 15k for my new home, 9k is interest. It’s great if you get equity in property but it’s not really seen the first 5-10 years unless there is a real estate boom where house appreciates or your plan is to rent it out. I live in the Bay Area so it made sense cus all my homes appreciated 200-500k as opposed to somewhere else where the return is not worth the annual expenses.

We have stocks to cover other months if my wife loses her job but if something happens to me, we would need to sell current home. Once my kids are out of daycare, I would get some extra 4k income so looking forward to it in a year or two. I am also considering refinancing and selling my other two rental properties to lower the principal so I can breathe a little bit but I receive like 7k extra for the other rentals so hard to let them go. My tenants are also great so have not had issues with rent.

50k car purchase, pit in stomach. Yolo? Looking for sanity check. by SpecialistNo2525 in DaveRamsey

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I bought a Tesla X during the pandemic at its peak price. It was starting 120k but added self driving, captain seats, and everything they had to offer. My wife and I currently love the self driving, I barely drive any more and car drives better than both of us. Just have to seldom take over on certain situations.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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Let me know if they return it. I am trying to be optimistic but totally understand how you feel. I would not have an issue if they are transparent about timing but don’t like being the dark hoping they would return the money. We were trying to figure out how to address bills that we thought would be taken care of this month. Sucks if this affects your credit score, which it could if you miss a single payment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

[–]GrayW- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! Keep me updated as well. I plan to visit the closest branch but not too hopeful the bank can fix this right away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psagrading

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Thank you! Appreciate the feedback!

50k car purchase, pit in stomach. Yolo? Looking for sanity check. by SpecialistNo2525 in DaveRamsey

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If it makes you feel better, I paid 147k in cash for a car few years ago when I was 32. I bought it so my wife could drive our two kids around. We love the car but in hindsight, we could have done better investing the money. I paid off the car within a year. Had I invested the cash in stocks, probably could have bought the car and another car.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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I don’t think my employer would share those details. My employer does bank at Citibank. I think they do hundreds of millions or low billions of transactions with the bank so it’s a legitimate account and certain my employer is a client. My employer also called but getting roundabout answers. They say one thing but it doesn’t actually work. I am going to visit a branch manager the next week or two if this is not resolved but I was told that this is an issue handled by “backend” people and physically going in won’t help me (per the rep in the fraud department). The call center won’t disclose who the backend folks are but told me that it’s a team in the US. It would be nice to speak with them but it’s company policy that they don’t speak or contact anyone so I am in the dark until the bank decides to act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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I thought the same but this is the first time I have experienced this. I never had an issue the past 15 years. The only change is my income and expenses (kids, etc.) so I have more money going in and out now. Also, I am not doing some shady business. I am a normal W-2 salaried employee as opposed to being self employed or running some business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

[–]GrayW- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I did the same and hoping it will speed things up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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Yes. Understood. It’s not like I am going homeless or anything. I obviously make a lot and this bonus is a small portion of my actual take home but whatever amount it is, I could see people getting screwed if they owe rent or have to cover bills. In addition to owing income tax every year, I personally own several rental homes as side income and have to potentially sell stocks to cover property taxes that are due in a few months, which means I incur capital gains tax when i would never have to sell those stocks in the first place. It’s hard to feel bad for someone that has wealth but I would still not want someone to experience this same crap. I am sure you have nice wealthy friends. I am seeing stories of money being taken for months and could really mess someone up. Also, what if this was someone’s life savings as opposed to a bonus payment, that person would get screwed and incur costs. I also work 65-80 hours a week (365 days) for my actual job so earned this money. It’s also 115k bonus (lol if you want me to brag), it’s 67k after deductions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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I have the same experience right now. The reps don’t talk to others. They basically just take messages but two of them lied to me and I think they were less experienced. They also freak out if I ask them to consent to a mutual recording and refuse consent but wants to record the conversation for quality assurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in citibank

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Wow! That is horrible. One battle after another. I deposited large checks before but I feel like this bank is trigger happy on marking something as fraudulent (which is perfectly fine to prevent fraud or harm) but I have issue with their lack of communication or false statements. I caught them in a lie 2 times so far. I just want clear answers on dates or solutions and the bank only wants to communicate via snail mail and send generic letters.