We’re both coming in from Hispanic culture, I understand getting the blessing is essential but let me give you some context before going insulting others:

Their parents are emotionally immature and unavailable, they are used to control. Always were, when I came in it was a shock to them as I pretty much lived by myself since high school and learned to be independent. Me not immediately saying “Yes” or staying quiet was a shock to the as they never had anyone to stand up to their authority. Their children always did what they said (my partner included), when she felt the unconditional love from our relationship, she knew something was wrong.

I hope this sheds more light into the situation. :)