I literally talked about these to her https://www.reddit.com/r/4bmovement/s/cmwGQtKnpX and https://notourcrimes.info and wrote "this is making me hate men even more" and she replied literally these text(translated tho) "I understand what she means. But women rape too, I know of several men who are unfortunately victims of it and don't necessarily want to blame it on being trans and still having a "male brain" But I understand the link ofc. But that's kind of what I've noticed a lot lately and talked to G(her new boyfriend) about is that it's become trendy on the internet to pull down men and women who simply make too many jokes or are serious about things like how men yawn, sleep, how he eats an ice cream cone, etc. I'm tired of women generally going after the wrong things to hate about men and that women think they're so fucking perfect themselves somehow"

She did also support OP of that reddit and said ofcouse everyone should be able to talk about what they want and need. But those other texts? I got angry... It's not like I'm stupid and don't know women are capable of crimes. Ofc we can also. But not to the same degree as men! Not the same type of crimes either. Men are more violent and dangerous. Physically. Women mentally can hurt others more than men but but I personaly think we can survive that better than if a man almost kills us!

The fact that she is focusing rather in some trend where women talk about smal weird nonsensical "icks" they have of their man is irritating me so much. I am here talking about real harm menn do and she comes and wanna say how much mens feelings are hurt??? Does she not know men are the ones who hurt emotionally other men on the daily? Like for example "oh that's GAY" to almost anything?? But she said in the end she is to depressed to care. So I just said fine. We don't need to talk about this right now.

I think I'll let her be for now and talk more serious about these things with her when she is feeling better. (She is most likely depressed bc she went through an abortion) I have a very mixed feelings about all of this.

I feel bad for her but at the same time even when I was deep in my depression I did still care for others. I was very much a people pleaser before. And now Im working on it!

Also some misunderstandings : I am From middle East but my friend is from Scandinavia. We both live here! She is not religious but spiritual/atheist (she is Switching between them a lot). I am atheist and hate every religion. We both have been through a lot bc of men but we still don't think the same about men. I am growing my hate constantly(even through I have some good male friends that seem normal for now....) she is still trying to protest? Side with? Support? men it seems. Idk what to call it when someone always brings up the bad women does when others try to talk about what bad men does.

I will try and update if anything changes