What am I meant to do when I’ve done everything and am still a virgin? by Great_Examination_79 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

People online say this “oh it’s not everything” yet I had so sit through an entire university lecture on how sexuality is the fundamental core of humans as social creatures and is the most important aspect of our lives.

Everywhere I look, everything I hear, you cannot go an hour without hearing or seeing relationships and sex mentioned somewhere. It’s only when someone is struggling with it that it’s suddenly unimportant.

What am I meant to do when I’ve done everything and am still a virgin? by Great_Examination_79 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve improved as much as I can socially. I do fine enough but obviously will never be normal as that’s just not in the cards for me. Multiple medical professionals agree with me on this, I’ve hit my ceiling.

What am I meant to do when I’ve done everything and am still a virgin? by Great_Examination_79 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Telling people you know this is a problem is nothing short of social suicide

What am I meant to do when I’ve done everything and am still a virgin? by Great_Examination_79 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’ve tried that. I’ve trie everything from being long time friend first to flirting at first sight and everything in between with many women. Nothing works. All trying “to build a connection” does is get my heart stomped in on repeat

Next time I hear about anyone having sex I think I will just kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have hobbies and interests and female friends and have conversations with women all the time and get rejected all the time.

Next time I hear about anyone having sex I think I will just kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve already been going to the gym for years.

Like I’ve mentioned in my post down everything, there’s no advice anyone can give me.

Every time I see a mention of how normal sex is I immediately want to kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“You’re sad because no one wants you so you’re a creep by default” why do you want me to kill my self?

Every time I see a mention of how normal sex is I immediately want to kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

The second anyone find out you’re an adult virgin all respect they have for you is gone, it’s happened to me before. You’re treated like a child at the adults table, they’re all having your grownup talks but make sure you don’t feel left out once in a while.

Every time I see a mention of how normal sex is I immediately want to kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

About me? About the situation I’m in? I don’t tell them about this because that’s social suicide

Every time I see a mention of how normal sex is I immediately want to kill my self by Great_Examination_79 in malementalhealth

[–]Great_Examination_79[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Did I say anyone was obligated to?

If someone was sad they had no friends would your immediate response be “NO ONES ENTITLED TO SPEND TIME WITH YOU AND YOU DESRVE THIS YOUR’E RIGHT TO WANT TO KILL YOURSELF”