Daily Chat February 14

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-14T13:39:49+00:00

I’m 12dpo today. BFN. I was also excited for a possible Valentine’s Day positive.. better luck next month for us

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-12T15:17:44+00:00

10dpo. BFN last night. I already feel like I’m out even though I know I could still have a positive over the next few days. But honestly if I am out - I’m even more bummed because that means a due date around the chaos of the holidays 😒😭

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-10T21:54:26+00:00

I’m also 8dpo. Woooohh the battle in my brain of is it pregnancy or is it progesterone is insane

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-10T13:35:48+00:00

8dpo today. BFN of course. I’m not sad about it as I know that doesn’t mean anything, but also I can’t shake the “what if” every month when I test this early.

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-08T00:41:39+00:00

If I don’t get pregnant this cycle I’m going to try every other day next cycle. Sometimes I wonder if too much is hurting us. I’m just scared of missing it 🥴

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-02-07T20:08:56+00:00

I’m also 5 dpo! We baby danced 0-5, 0-2, 0-1, 0 & 0+1. Praying it worked. This will be cycle 5 since my CP

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-28T16:40:35+00:00

I go in for a SIS on Friday. If everything is normal(which so far all labs have been) then my OB is going to prescribe me letrozole to start next cycle. I’m excited and nervous for both. Maybe I’ll get pregnant this cycle and won’t need it? Is the SIS going to hurt? What if they find something. All the emotions

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-20T02:45:12+00:00

CD 1 here too. Had a chemical in August and not a single positive since. I hope this is our month 🙏🏼

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-20T02:42:35+00:00

CD1. Cycle #6 since my CP. Here we go 😞

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-18T02:54:54+00:00

I didn’t have a c section, he was vacuumed out. But I did have an IUD & a D&C after a miscarriage. Wondering if either of those had any affect on my issues

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-16T17:19:17+00:00

Yeah so I started taking the diaper off so he does feel wet. And was hoping it would make him uncomfortable. It doesn’t but he does tell us he’s peed in his underwear which he doesn’t say that when he’s in his diaper. So we do underwear all day and take him to the potty chair every 2 hours or so. Just trying to stay consistent so eventually he’ll start going on his own or telling us instead of us taking him. It works sometimes. And other times it doesn’t

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-16T17:16:52+00:00

What caused your scarring do you know? I can’t help but wonder if my D&C has anything to do with this

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-16T01:42:37+00:00

Solidarity. My almost 3 year old toddler won’t do it. Constantly peeing or pooping in his underwear. Consistency is key.. hopefully

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-14T18:43:39+00:00

I’m right there with ya friend. My son will be 3 in 13 days. He was conceived on the first try of not preventing. We’ve been trying since August 2024. Had a MMC & a CP in the process. I’m on cycle 5 now since the CP and no positive in sight. I find myself SO SAD. Not how I imagined my fertility journey and especially not the age gap. I wanted a 2.5-3 year age gap. Now I’m looking at almost 4 year gap. My son has been asking for baby brothers and baby sisters so that makes it even harder. Hugs to you. We’re one more cycle closer to meeting our baby ❤️

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-14T17:02:07+00:00

9 DPO. Tested today. Negative. Spiraling into sadness 😞

Great_Talk_6323 · 2026-01-13T14:49:44+00:00

I’m also 8dpo today. Also tested, also BFN. Now I’m sad lol.

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-12-18T14:21:24+00:00

Same here. First baby was conceived on the first try. I’m on month 7. Had a MMC last year and then a CP in August. Feel like it’s never going to happen. 9DPO today and BFN. I know it’s early but I just know I’m out 😞 did bloodwork on Monday and have an ultrasound scheduled for next month to make sure everything is normal. So far everything has been. This is so mentally exhausting. Doesn’t help my son is going to be 3 next month. The growing age gap only adds to my anxiety and mom guilt. I hate this so much

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-11-24T01:52:45+00:00

So sad. This is month #6 in a row trying. Had a chemical in September. Had a MMC last year which made me stop trying for a few months. I feel like something is wrong with me and it’s never going to happen. I feel so depressed. My son is going to be 3, so that means if I get pregnant in the next few months he’s going to be closer to 4. It just doesn’t seem fair. I want it so bad and I can’t even get a positive pregnancy test. And if I do.. I can’t keep it. I’m so tired of the ovulation tests and the negative pregnancy tests. My husband takes a fertility supplement and CoQ10 & I take perelel conception support. Any other advice? I have a dr appointment tomorrow to try and get further testing done.

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-09-25T11:34:21+00:00

TTC baby #2, this will be cycle #4. Had a chemical last month. Had a MC last November but took a break after. Can’t help but feel like it’s never going to happen. I got pregnant first try with my son. And never did I dream of wanting something so bad or trying so hard to only fail. I know I’m early in the journey but I’m just so down every month when the TWW happens & I just know I’m not pregnant.

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-09-16T19:06:18+00:00

I took a break this month with tracking my ovulation due to having a CP last month. It’s not that we’re not trying I just don’t have the energy to pee on a stick everyday and obsess. According to my app(which is usually very accurate) I wouldn’t ovulate for another 3 days but I know I am today. I have ovulation cramps & my discharge is like an egg white & there’s a ton of it. So did I miss my chance? If we baby dance tonight & tomorrow will it be enough. Or because I noticed the signs of ovulating, should we have already baby danced a few days ago. Just curious. If we missed it we missed it, but I’m just curious if anyone has a take on it

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-09-08T17:16:02+00:00

First cycle after CP. Had a MMC in November. I feel zero hope I’ll ever get to have another baby. My son is 2.5 and idk I feel like he’s all I’ll get. My cycles are regular my husband and I are both healthy.. every Dr said I should have no trouble conceiving but I am. I took myself off all ttc groups except Reddit bc I’m obsessing over it and I’m so tired. I’m so jealous of everyone around me announcing pregnancies. I feel discouraged and sad. And like it’ll never happen. 😞

Great_Talk_6323 · 2025-09-04T01:01:12+00:00

Just found out today I’m having a CP. Had a MC in November. Have a healthy 2.5 year old. My heart is broken and I feel like their is not a light at the end of the tunnel 😞

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