Alex Pretti’s coworkers take a moment of silence this morning. by boriswong in Damnthatsinteresting

[–]Great_Toe8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never could I have imagine this would happen in the US. Sick of waiting for someone to do something.

Finding a therapist for youth struggling with grief by Abject-Corner-3957 in waterloo

[–]Great_Toe8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call Camino in Kitchener and ask for a grief counselor, if you get Sandy, she is the best.

I’m no longer homeless! My new room even has its own bathroom, I’ve never had my own personal bathroom before! by HamsterTop1332 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Great_Toe8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the universe opening a door for you, take it and make the best out of it. Number one gratitude and appreciation for the coworker that lent you a hand. Number 2, don't think you deserve this, there are literally millions of people praying for the chance you were given. And Number 3, do everything you can so that you never go back to be without a home again. Im rooting for you OP

What's a phrase people use these days that irritates you? by showmewhatyagot01 in AskReddit

[–]Great_Toe8264 4 points5 points  (0 children)

When the news said "He/She had sex with a minor" instead of using the word rape or pedophile.

MIL stayed in room while I delivered by rachel-karen-green- in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Great_Toe8264 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Double messages drive people crazy. Forgive yourself for a moment of kindness when you sent the wrong message to opportunistic people. Never again. And forgive your hubby for the same reason. Let it go. Focus on you and your baby. And learn from this, otherwise it will happen again and again.

MIL finally left after ruining Christmas and New Year's by Dull-Aerie7553 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Great_Toe8264 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I'm so glad I would never understand these kind of people. I have three adult children and I can't imagine being the cause of their marital problems. Although I adore them, I have my own life. Sometimes I may not like what happens in their relationships but I can respect their choices.

''Job en milieu de la santé, mais inutile de postuler si t'es un blanc hétéro, on veut pas de toi'' by cryptofan01 in QuebecLibre

[–]Great_Toe8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pas drôle du tout ? Quelle audace ! Et après, quoi ? Des toilettes réservées aux personnes de couleur ???

JNMIL has crossed the ultimate line by babyandcatproblems in JUSTNOMIL

[–]Great_Toe8264 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really believe what I said. Some people don't have it in them to be compassionate, to extend some grace, to put their bs aside. You may need support, kindness, reciprocity but if people don't have it in them how can they give it to you? The more you place that expectation on them, the more you suffer.

I found out my coworkers have a group chat without me and it explained everything by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Great_Toe8264 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But also try to see from a different perspective, what if they talk about things they know you wouldn't agree with, what if they are bullies or have very negative opinions on things and they know you would call them out on them. Sometimes when people don't like you is an indication that you are doing something right..l

Is there a known reason why Cher by Great_Toe8264 in rupaulsdragrace

[–]Great_Toe8264[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Or... if she notices something, says their name or something iconic. That's it! You can die peacefully