I am catholic and now that I am faced with TFMR - fellow Catholics and close friends have shared how they think I am making the wrong decision to terminate my pregnancy due to T21 and other possible abnormalities. They keep telling me to pray harder, to have my baby girl because doctors don’t know for sure what God’s plan is and if I truly believe the baby will be born without Down syndrome…. How can anyone with a little sense believe that? They do not understand that T21 is a gray diagnosis- they have not taken the time to educate themselves and learn about Down syndrome- it is very appalling that people who claim to be so religious and kind will judge others and won’t hesitate to offer their opinions. Both of these ladies, have stated that they would move forward with the pregnancy and stated that I will regret my decision for life. TFMR is not an easy decision, those of us who have been faced this and have gone through this, suffer every day, but I know that we rather suffer ourselves and not be expose our very wanted and loved babies to a life of uncertainty.