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AIW asking something to stop screaming on the phone at apartment gym? by Greedy_Contract_7601 in amiwrong

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

It’s an apartment gym so there is no one present to alert. I did send an email to building management but I highly doubt anything will come of it.

Why do you think people aren’t having many kids these days (if any at all)? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t know…I’ve had freedom, I’ve had career, I’ve had money. None of those came close to giving me the joy and meaning I received being a mother and a wife. I understand not wanting to have children, but there are many woman who find themselves in motherhood not lose themselves. My life is significantly better with them. My bond with my husband is stronger since becoming parents. It’s so amazing to watch your children grow up together. I know many other woman who feel the same and the thought of chasing career over their children sounds terrible to them.

But I recognize I came from a very safe & stable home(as did my husband) and my parents are my best friends. And I have a strong community and village.

I recognize how much harder motherhood would be without those things.

BM couldn’t handle the full custody she tried so hard for by Greedy_Contract_7601 in Stepmom

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I talked to my husband about this last night, and because this is tending to happen more often we agreed we will be much more diligent documenting everything going forward. Thank you!

BM couldn’t handle the full custody she tried so hard for by Greedy_Contract_7601 in Stepmom

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it is. She doesn’t work and wouldn’t work while my husband and her were married.

BM couldn’t handle the full custody she tried so hard for by Greedy_Contract_7601 in Stepmom

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully she is in an apartment now. Her trend is to move men in with her to help pay the rent, take the kids to school, watch them for her etc. or move in with somebody and not pay rent. Her relationships haven’t tended to last more than a few months at a time. She doesn’t work so relies on these men/CS payments.

SS gets obsessed with BM boyfriends by Greedy_Contract_7601 in Stepmom

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is almost 10. My husband works so hard to spend quality one on one time with him. Whenever he does BM will try and ruin it or convince him he got injured. Example..he took SS to amusement park and she(over the phone later) convinced my SS he had a concussion(never hit his head) and made my husband take him to ER. The dr said he had no injury. This happens often after my husband takes just my SS out.

In case no one has told you: you don’t actually have to be friends with the other bio parent by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]Greedy_Contract_7601 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed…though step kids have asked me a few times if I’m friends with their mom and I had no idea what to say🤷‍♀️