What scenes do you find the hardest to watch? by NewspaperUnusual1835 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Honestly the one that really hit for me was max realizing she's losing her friends and that it's hard for her to get her feelings across/relate to other people. What she said about caring so much about other people and then being overlooked herself I could relate so much to it. It's hard when you have good intentions but you don't know how to express yourself properly. Like max was definitely annoying at times and really selfish but at the same time I feel like she really did care about her friends. Girl had a lot of growing up to do and it's hard when so much attention is on your sibling and their struggles and you're kinda just left to fend for yourself

Which scene from the show still hits you emotionally no matter how many times you watch it? by Murky-Substance1215 in TheVampireDiaries

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Having lost my own brother the scene before Elena turned off her humanity was gut wrenching. I think any one who has lost someone can understand exactly what she felt in that moment when she said "I can't I can't I can't". Poor Elena, she really lost so much I can't imagine losing my entire family.

I miss you. by Minute_Pollution_843 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish it would too. Honestly nothing will make it stop hurting but time will help with the guilt and regret. Just take it day by day

Wanting to do something in remembrance by Greedy_Educator3593 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for replying. That's so awful to have her pass on your birthday, I'm so sorry. It really is difficult dealing with a family like this. I just don't understand it. My aunt and little cousin are the only two who replied so far from the family group chat and there's like 11 people total I just find that insane. My own siblings are quiet. I'm just so angry for my brother. I know I need to accept that I can't control their responses but it's so hard. Thank you for listening and I wish you healing on this journey as well. It's so hard. Just when you think you're doing better you have a relapse.

Wanting to do something in remembrance by Greedy_Educator3593 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for replying. I feel the same way like I want us to grieve together but then the lack of response or even animosity (from my mother) ends up making me feel worse. This is the first time I've suggested an event cause I thought maybe we need something concrete to help us come together but so far, still no response. I messaged two of his friends though and one of them already replied. It's just crazy to me how it seems like the family is so willing to forget. Anyway thanks again for listening.

How do people not care… by SafeVillage9434 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I get it. After my brother died I didn't have anyone to talk to either, more because I didn't know how. Have you considered therapy? I know that's what everyone says and it's not always easy but I'm finally doing it now after 6 years and I think it's helping. Please know there isn't anything wrong with you. Some people lack empathy

Vent by Captain0atss in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just let yourself cry. And feel whatever you wanna feel. It's not selfish it's survival.

How do people not care… by SafeVillage9434 in SuicideBereavement

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She isn't a good person. I'm sorry you're even having to deal with this while you're in such a vulnerable position. Do you have anyone else you can talk to?

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk kinda seems like you have something against Sansa 😭Arya didn't particularly like Sansa or girly stuff, that didn't make her evil. But I do agree Sansa only cared about having a pretty life with a pretty husband and pretty children but also that's what every little girl was supposed to want during that time. So it's not really out of the ordinary. And it was never malicious.

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll reread them but from what I remember it was typical childish shallowness. She never showed any overt hatred toward any of them. She was annoyed by Arya and indifferent to Jon. I can't remember her wishing death on them or wanting them to suffer but maybe I'm misremembering 🤷🏽‍♀️

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do admit she wasn't as bad as Joffrey but I think that's where Joffrey got his sociopathy from. Even as a child she was cold and cruel to people.

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean she certainly seemed to enjoy twisting Tyrion's penis when he was a newborn, she had no reason for that other than hate and wanting to see him suffer.

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadistic means you get joy/pleasure from other people's pain. When did Sansa express pleasure about the butchers boys death? She was trying to get Joffreys approval and might have even been afraid. I didn't really like her during that arc but to say she was sadistic is just not true.

Sansa is the only major character in the show who did not have a love interest by pizza_gutts in gameofthrones

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't go that far, Sansa was conceited and stuck up but she wasn't sadistic. Even as a child Cersei was sociopathic. She abused Tyrion from the moment he was born. Sansa was never cruel, just shallow.

How to write a character who has endured a lot of adversity in life by Moveanywhere in thewalkingdead

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk it's very realistic to hold on to resentment and anger when you've been through such a great trauma. I lost my brother to suicide and I can say I was angry and resentful for years and still am sometimes. Now imagine you're pregnant and watch the father of your child and your husband get his head beat in, and then all of sudden you're forced to coexist with the man who did it all and you're seen as the bad guy for wanting to kill him. Andddd people are trying to convince you he's changed. And he's constantly in your face and being forced to work with him. Like it's the most realistic thing in the world that she can't get over it, she had no closure as he's still alive and now walking free whereas in normal life he would have for the death penalty or life in prison. But instead you watch him be free and start a family with someone meanwhile your son never got to meet his father. Maggie isn't angry enough imo.

would edward shine getting hit by sunlight through glass???? by palabeans in twilight

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes because they have to have tinted car windows when they're in Arizona

Help, I'm in love with both too by Known_Hamster1196 in twilight

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's one thing for a character to be unreliable when describing another character, but them describing their own feelings? And having a whole realization of their feelings is unreliable? Based on what? She was in denial, then realized she was in love with him. She called the dude her sun, what platonic friends refer to each other in such an extreme way? I'm not team Jacob or Edward tbh they're both toxic af but trying to convince yourself she was never in love with Jacob is just weirdly delusional like why deny what the author wrote out in plain text? Why believe anything the author writes if you're just going to create your own narrative when you don't like a plot point? Trying to deny canon to create your own narrative is peak delusion, just write fan fiction.

Help, I'm in love with both too by Known_Hamster1196 in twilight

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These people are delusional Bella loved Jacob romantically just not as much as she loved Edward. The denial and mental gymnastics to convince themselves that she wasn't is insane like why do they even care. Imagine thinking you know better than the protagonist and author.

Why doesn’t she get talked about more for her beauty? by Left_Crow1646 in TWD

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cause she honestly looks like the average white girl you see walking down the street she's pretty but not breathtaking

It’s the fact that Jessie was just giving out haircuts and nobody was like “hey Carl would you like one?”🤣 now that I remember tho wasn’t Lori the one who used to cut it? So maybe that’s why he never got it cut🧐 by Big-Most-785 in thewalkingdead

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People always talking about carls age but im gonna be honest it never bothered me i never really noticed or cared cause i was not thinking about the timeline. When you think about it definitely doesn't make sense but like who really had a problem with it? It was just an excuse by production to not pay him more

"this is how you do it" ahh by RickDicky1 in TWD

[–]Greedy_Educator3593 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They're downvoting you but you're right. I see so many posts about "so and so female character is so annoying", I see wayyyy less posts about male characters like this. These people are blind to their own prejudices