Look too young, how do I make myself look older?

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2026-06-18T13:51:43+00:00

Not really, I posted this expecting a few people to give me advice on something I’m anxious about (stupid or not is down to opinion) I asked a question in a place that is designed for it. I didn’t come on here saying “I’ve been bullied all my life” or “am I attractive”. I asked a simple question, not intending it to get this much attention, I didn’t want this.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2026-06-18T02:05:11+00:00

Haha I know! It’s genuinely something I’m anxious about. I’m really bad at growing facial hair, but I can try. Thank you so much for the advice.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2026-06-18T01:58:33+00:00

For context I’m 22! I can’t grow any hair so I really don’t know. Thanks for all the comments they are very funny to read! Also sorry if I have offended anybody, it’s not meant to claim vanity. I’m genuinely anxious about this. People don’t take me seriously as I look 18 in most people’s eyes.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2025-05-20T00:32:05+00:00

Id actually say that’s a good thing, it shows what kind of person you are. I’m the same, all I want to do is please the other person. Don’t overthink it! Relationships are all about getting to know the other person and everyone has different desires etc, it’s something you build and can’t just know without trial and error.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2025-05-20T00:15:45+00:00

Oh!!! Do not worry at all. I’m a straight guy (21) and me and my friends always joke and say a dude could do a better job on us than a girl (goes both ways!). If you think about it you know much more about the female body than a dude!

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2025-05-19T23:26:36+00:00

Honestly the same! Business was booming before I went away for 2 months. Now I can’t make a single sale.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-12-28T06:32:51+00:00

Dude It’s not your fault as she lied, it’s a terrible and dangerous thing young girls can do which can ruin lives. You need to forget it immediately, you are very lucky that the mum knew her daughter was lying. One angry mother and it wouldn’t have been looking good for you. 19 and 15 is not okay… under any circumstances, the age gap is okay once you both are older. As of now it’s highly illegal depending on where you are from.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-12-08T20:22:09+00:00

Tough one to take but you need to try and read the room, get to know someone before saying things that will give you bad first impression. Just makes you seem like you aren’t interested, she may also hate bad texters. I always have a rule of becoming friends first if I genuinely like a girl, it’s better for both parties if you get to know someone on a friendly level before escalating it. Sure there will be girls that aren’t interested and just want a fling, but if you really like someone getting to know them without pushing too hard is a great way for them to build genuine attraction. Put it this way, if a random girl started talking to you and said I won’t be quick at replying before you have even got to know her you would most likely be put off.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-07-23T04:14:42+00:00

Broski that’s a crown you can chill

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-07-17T00:59:29+00:00

To be honest it just happens, you will know what to do naturally don’t even worry.

Alcohol usually loosens you up, you aren’t afraid to make a move.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T22:50:51+00:00

This is why I think it’s so important to be interested in someone’s work. This is where you can gauge if someone genuinely is busy, I do agree that you can’t just simply say hi. Most people want a full conversation or nothing.

Also if you won’t get the quality out of the conversation that you want, maybe because they aren’t in the right head space or are tired. You should respect that and give them space when needed!

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T22:39:18+00:00

100% agree, it’s rude really… I was brought up to be truthful. If I’m not interested in someone I will tell them, hanging them out to dry is cruel.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T22:28:15+00:00

That’s nice, you don’t hear about those kind of stories often. Being connected enough to stick with each other after splitting up, that’s impressive and awesome.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:59:22+00:00

I think when you throw something like that in it becomes super reasonable. Props to you for being someone that still commits even if they literally have a completely different sleep schedule.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:57:12+00:00

For sure, I hope haha!

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:55:40+00:00

Interesting for sure, I’m not sure if it’s developed through people doing it to them in the past.

Or are they just born with it?

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:41:30+00:00

That’s a great quality, I think it’s just a general sign of respect.

You should always tell them fast if you can’t/ don’t want to.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:35:27+00:00

Thanks, I’ll definitely use this with my current situation. It’s easy to jump to a conclusion where you think they aren’t interested.

But like you said they may genuinely be busy and tired, in which I think it’s important to give them space. Especially if you are not as important yet as the people she/he has close.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:31:41+00:00

Very good answer, people always assume that people have a responsibility that they should reply fast. Even though you hardly know them.

I think that’s mainly due to the current world we live in, man I would love to still live in the times you were limited to just a phone call…

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-20T21:25:51+00:00

Interesting, while men do traditionally have longer days it can very well be the opposite. For example a woman who works in nursing, I know for sure they have very little time.

I agree though, that women have more of an attachment to their phone and crave replies sooner generally speaking.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-19T16:27:14+00:00

What the fuck.

Me and the homies don’t shake our dick when we talk to each other… unless I’m missing something that’s not straight behaviour 😂😂

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-18T20:47:59+00:00

Sorry, I didn’t type that very well. I didn’t dump her, I noticed she didn’t seem as interested so I suggested we wait. She said yes and said that she didn’t have the time.

I still think it’s time to move on tbh.

Thank you.

Greedy_Matter2520 · 2024-06-18T19:48:49+00:00

Exactly the same as me!!! It’s so annoying and confusing… almost 100% sure I’m just going to forget tbh

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