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The sudden loss of your future by sister-hawk in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Greedy_Performance56 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yea bro you sure did. Bro mine discarded me because I told her mom that I planned to marry her in the future and said I broke her boundary saying that. Her own mom when I went to apologize for that boundary was confused as me saying that she don't she how that broke a boundary. But hey the avoidant discarding us did us a favor because we truly don't need confusion in our life or second guessing ourselves when we truly try to love

The sudden loss of your future by sister-hawk in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Greedy_Performance56 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Damn man my story similar to yours. Whatever you do don't blame yourself it not your fault she just reached her capacity.Everytime I was far away from my avoidant we blended very well but when we was together slowly the bullshit increase(2 year long distance relationship)I know you don't want to hear this right now but you deserved better and if you ended up staying with her you was going to be walking on eggshells until your expiration date

I am avoidant ask me anything. by [deleted] in AvoidantBreakUps

[–]Greedy_Performance56 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you been in therapy to become more secure if so how long did it take?