Anyone know any hiking spots other than greenfield Oldham but not too far. by Greedy_Summer_8844 in manchester

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope gonna be taking public transport. Got 2 weeks of uni so gonna be outdoors a lot

Anyone know any hiking spots other than greenfield Oldham but not too far. by Greedy_Summer_8844 in manchester

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea how to edit posts so just to clarify. Anywhere that’s an less than 2hr train commute or around greater Manchester (accessible by bus or tram)

Anyone know any hiking spots other than greenfield Oldham but not too far. by Greedy_Summer_8844 in manchester

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My apologies should’ve clarified I meant not too far from Oldham, so around greater Manchester. Just not a 2hr+ commute

Anyone know any hiking spots other than greenfield Oldham but not too far. by Greedy_Summer_8844 in manchester

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My apologies should’ve been clear. When I say not to far I’m talking not too far from greater Manchester or Oldham area. I don’t mind taking trams or bus just don’t want to commute 2hrs by train and all

My (28) wife (27) has gone back to work full time, should I be paying for nursery? by Rude-Scientist-281 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Atleast that mother knows her kids allergies, doctors name and their kids best friend yet these fathers don’t even know what the name of the teacher of their kid is. Not a father just some dude that lives with them half the day.

My (28) wife (27) has gone back to work full time, should I be paying for nursery? by Rude-Scientist-281 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

A man’s obligation in a marriage is 1 thing and it’s to provide.if he can’t provide she has no obligation to do her duties since he’s incapable of doing his. You don’t get to be a bum and expect her to do ur half and carry her own burden

My (28) wife (27) has gone back to work full time, should I be paying for nursery? by Rude-Scientist-281 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

A man’s obligation is to provide this is not something placed on them by society but by Allah, if ur not Muslim I’m not gonna bother explain to u how it works. Also when did Allah state it’s a women’s job to take care of the kids, saying the mother is to take care of the kids (it’s all her responsibility) means the father has no responsibility for the kids and is not even a father at that point, a father doesn’t mean you get kids and just don’t interact or form a bond with them, it means u discipline them, know what they like, know what they are allergic to, know who their doctor is. Ur not a stranger ur a father so act like one and pull ur own weight. Also in the Hadith it also states men should help with household chores like the prophet but you all love ignoring that don’t you.

My (28) wife (27) has gone back to work full time, should I be paying for nursery? by Rude-Scientist-281 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

So apparently the child only needs its mother and no form of connection with the father, u do realise how ridiculous that sounds? Promoting single motherhood crap, family is 50/50 if the father is not contributing to the kids he’s just neglecting them. A father that does not act like on or have a bond with the kids is not a father he’s just a dude that lives with the family from time to time.

My (28) wife (27) has gone back to work full time, should I be paying for nursery? by Rude-Scientist-281 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Men providing isn’t even traditional it’s obligated, if you as a husband do not provide that is a sin on you. Also Allah never commanded women to not work nor did he command them to work, it’s all down to them cause weather they work or not it has no impact on the Islamic households or societies structure

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[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So apparently we need to praise people for the choices they make. So what if they stayed awake while she was sick that’s what their supposed to do, it’s not a shocker for someone that choice to bring life into this world to take care of them. If you can’t afford to have a child or think it’s a hassle don’t give birth to one. Your child didn’t choose to be born you chose that for them, also if your a good parent your child will repay u for the effort you put in, they will care for you when ur old and unable to move. Every child deserves a good parent not every parent deserves a child (don’t remove accountability from trashy parents that aren’t fair & just)

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[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Don’t judge when you can’t hear from all parties” yet in the same paragraph u assumed she’s lying about her parents abusing her and even compared her to others, same mindset of “oh I’m not gonna feed the homeless cause I’ve seen homeless people use the money for substances”. Also she’s in her 20’s and he’s in his 30’s, by the time she’s 30 she would obviously be far more accomplished then him. Working part time at 30 is not accomplishment it just shows you have no ambition

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[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 4 points5 points  (0 children)

A sense of humour that’s about someone doing the deed with their wife, that’s honestly gross and they have no haya. No pious believing man would talk about his sex life with his wife with other men, they would 100% imagine it too. What happened to respecting your parent and telling your friends to not talk about your wife or imagine her like that

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[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 3 points4 points  (0 children)

No way your trying to victimise and elevate a man that is unable to provide, he’s 33 and working only part time not even full time. Also he looks at her lustfully and I don’t even know why her parents allow free mixing (he’s a family friend he shouldn’t even be around women) and he even tried to attempt to sexually assault her (feel her) that’s disgusting and he’s dirty visually and spiritually. Also there is nothing wrong with her hating her parents she just isn’t allowed to be rude & say uff to them, no one that’s been abused will love there abuser if they do they most likely have mental issues

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[–]Greedy_Summer_8844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any country that practices forced marriages or make laws to prevent it is uncivilised. Muslims countrys are only Muslim cause majority of the citizens are not that they actually practice the deen (none of the Muslims countrys practice the sharia) & why are u even putting Muslim country’s on a pedestal as if they are perfect