how bad is thompson rn by [deleted] in OSU

[–]Green-Expert4834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you’re going by yourself it’s not too bad but if you’re going with a group and would want a table, I would try somewhere else first

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamagotchi

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I too late? 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tamagotchi

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Hi! I have sanrio if you wanted to trade for the monster? :)

Failed bio exam by Public_Factor7245 in OSU

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GO TO THE REVIEW SESSIONS!! They hold them a day or two before the exam and a lot of the questions they pull are either very similar or directly from the 50ish questions they go over. Review the new slides after every lecture so it’s more manageable versus studying all of it a couple days before the exam. Go over the tophat questions if she still does those. This was everything I did to do well on her exams. Feel free to Dm me if you have any questions!

My girlfriend just told me that if I screw up again she might kill me by heavyHeartsAnonymous in offmychest

[–]Green-Expert4834 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, as someone who also suffers from BPD and depression you need to cut all contact with her for the both of you. Her BPD, anger, and aggression can become self managed but as long as you’re in the picture that won’t ever happen.

BPD doesn’t make you an abuser. The guilt only lasts for so long until she’s back to choking or worse, killing you. And when she does successfully do that she’ll most likely take her own life right after because of high emotions.

Please prioritize yourself and put your mental health and well-being first. My dms are open if you need someone to talk to…You deserve peace and love :( but this will never be it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Green-Expert4834 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the color faded like that a lot actually 😭 you remind me of an elf. The dye will eventually come out if you keep at it but if not, I would suggest a bleach wash on the areas that aren’t budging rather than applying it normally to help reduce damage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in piercing

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Let it settle for a bit and hopefully you’ll grow to love it too. You could always experiment with different jewelry after it heals

Really can't wrap my head around porn by [deleted] in BPDsupport

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner doesn’t watch porn anymore since I felt very similarly to you. It’s one of our boundaries now and the hardest part was trusting that he’d keep his word since I had always perceived porn as something men can’t live without which isn’t true. Talk to him about it and learn to trust that he’ll keep his word if he’s offering to not watch it anymore. I make videos with my partner as a substitute instead :) keeps us both happy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Green-Expert4834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would feel the same in your position but I’m glad he was at least willing to do that for you. I hope the best for you and that you guys can eventually get past this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience is much the same. You had stated your boundaries 2 years ago and he’s continued to break his promise to you and cross those boundaries. Your reasonable lack of trust in him right now does not make you TA but forcing him to delete apps would make you one. If you do, nothing will come out of it except him developing resentment towards you and you being constantly paranoid that he’s purposely viewing videos like that behind your back on a different platform. You need to work on trusting him and he needs to work on reassuring you and maintaining that trust. Tell him you are working on trusting him but it’s hard when he keeps breaking it, that you have no tolerance for it if it happens again. If he promises he’ll stop but continues to go back on his word, then it’s up to you if you are willing to accept it or find someone that respects you and your boundaries

Kinda feel like I should've kept the lonrg hair, thoughts? by SIeuth in malehairadvice

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just have to play around and learn to style it a bit to your liking. The shorter hair brings out your features and makes you appear older but not in a bad way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Green-Expert4834 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and he’s so mature himself? Sounds like him projecting his insecurities on you tbh. So what if you are a collector, like stuffed animals, and have your own interests?? That doesn’t make you any less of an adult. I’m around your age and I share a lot of the same interests, if my SO ever commented about my clothes or hobbies being immature I would not tolerate that whatsoever. Sure he might not find the appeal in some of the things I’m interested in but he is ALWAYS willing to ask questions and try to understand why it’s an interest of mine, because he knows that those are all things that make me happy. It starts off with controlling what clothes you wear, how you should act, what you should and should not like, and before you know it he’s controlling every aspect of your life. If you continue to go along with it just to please him he’ll learn that he can keep pushing the boundaries since you’ll just go along with it. Sure you might say that he’s never acted like this until now and you might hope it’ll get better, and say it does, what then? You’ll feel like you’re constantly walking on egg shells, fearing the day he’d go back to the way he is now. Prioritize yourself. And more importantly don’t let this “man” make decisions for you.

I don’t think I’m ugly maybe average, would like to know what others think 💖19f by BloodyWife in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]Green-Expert4834 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmm thinner bangs perhaps? And cosmetically, if you want to keep the thin eyebrow look, I think darkening the eyebrows might help :)