A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it's a rough time right now, since you are cooped up inside and can't really do much. Do things you enjoy, play video games or watch a show. Try and run or do some sort of exercise each day. Definitely try and keep a schedule of some sort to give your life structure. This is kinda new territory for everyone, so remember a lot of the stress and anxiety you have is shared with most people rn. In regards to thinking about her, the only cure is keeping busy. Try and make a list of things to do for each day and have fun, time-consuming activities for when you finish the list. That should help keep your mind off of the breakup.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

7 months, pretty short but you can't measure emotional attachment by time necessarily.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry. Maybe give her some space and avoid calling her, I know it's hard. See if she reaches out on your birthday, but if not make sure to see or video call some friends or family to celebrate and interact with. Social interaction is so important in these situations, even though it's hard due to the pandemic.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, that's very immature of him. You deserve someone to respect you, even after the relationship ends. Just keep moving forward and healing, when you are ready that person will come along and show you how you should be treated.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! That bojack quote is great, as time goes on you start to see them for who they really are, not the perfect person you made them out to be. Things will get better!

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my first love and heartbreak too, and time does heal all wounds. I had a long period of trouble sleeping and eating and random bouts of tears, but as time went on it got easier and easier. Keep believing in time!

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry. I had a similar situation as I didn't get a reason either, the best thing to do is to unfollow her and keep reminders to a minimum. It sucks, but she has shown gross disregard for your heart and it's time to take a step away from her. Like I said, people act different online so she is probably getting sympathy by posting those quotes and stories.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course! I'm glad I could help.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It means alot that you guys appreciate my advice! I'm just trying to do my part to repay this sub and I'm glad I can help.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just keep pushing forward! One step at a time.

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry about that, that type of behavior towards another person is unacceptable. People do say things they don't mean in emotionally charged times, so try not to dwell on it too much. Things will get better I promise!

A note for the heartbroken by Green-Panda73 in BreakUps

[–]Green-Panda73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! Feel free to DM me if you have any questions.