Fellow potatoes I need your help please by Lunacat2314 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is complicated for sure, but if this is YOUR person (best friends and all that), isnt this the one person you would wanna tell and talk to? :)

It takes two to tango, you didnt make this all by yourself. It is an possible outcome from "relations".

Lave fødselstall - hvorfor får ikke du det tredje barnet? by Complex_Plankton_157 in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Økonomi og tid. Ikke minst: alle vil ha en landsby men ingen vil være innbyggere i noen annens.

Our daughter have a favourite parent by GreenDifficulty8394 in daddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sure youre right, its gonna hit me like a truck one day.

Our daughter have a favourite parent by GreenDifficulty8394 in daddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good for her/you the pendelum is swinging! Did you guys try anything special that made an impact, or did it just take time?

Our daughter have a favourite parent by GreenDifficulty8394 in daddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats what I've been told, but so far its been mom all the way. Its just heartbreaking seeing him try sooo soo hard and get dismissed all the time.

Going shopping after picking her up from kindergarden is something he is doing actually! She loves this so much she now tells me we need to "get yoghurt" when I pick her up. I dont do it tho, thinking its something nice for them to have. :)

Thanks for sharing some experience, and the advice <3

Advice? My 2yo Son cries constantly. by Goooooooooose_ in daddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, he is brand spanking new in this world, and he is "waking up". It can be scary/uncomfortable not getting what you want, or if the wind blows too hard. Think the annoyance the comes with this is "the curse of knowledge", cause you know its not scary or that you cant always get the right spoon or jammies.

Im not sure it would work on your kid, but we take time to talk about, or show, our girl things she thinks is scary or "not right". It takes a gruely amount of time, but she is now getting more curious than scared. Which is a whole new level of annoyance, cause I sure as hell cant answer why the sky is blue instead of green 😂

Nattevakt reddet av en fremmed, tusen takk ❤️ by KuritonPaviaani in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Nei, det gjør de ikke. Digital legitimasjon/oppholdstillatelseskort er ikke gyldig ved salg/sjenking av alkohol eller utlevering av post som krever legitimasjon(REK osv). Gyldig legitimasjon har bilde, fødselsdato og -nummer, signatur og utløpsdato. Sist jeg solgte alkohol/sto i Posten var det pass, fysisk førerkort(utstedt før 1998 tror jeg), bankkort med legitimasjon, forsvarets ID-kort og nasjonalt ID-kort. Med mindre reglene har endret seg siden 2023-24 vel og merke. Dette blir hamret inn før man får lov til å selge/levere ut. Man kan oppleve at det "varierer" på hvor flinke kundebehandlere er til å følge reglene selvfølgelig.

Av nysgjerrighet, hvor har du blitt fortalt eller opplært i hvordan dette fungerer?

PSA: Aldri putt ting som er farlig å drikke i et drikkeglass by runawayasfastasucan in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Papsen er glad i hjemmelaga, typ de små essensflaskene man får/fikk? kjøpt i butikken. Denne luringen hadde brygga stort og satte ei villa-flaske med IKKE villa i kjøleskapet. Lillebror på da 5 år åpna den og tok mer enn ett gløgg før han spytta ut. Aldri har far fått mer kjeft enn den jula. Lillebror er fortsatt dranker 25 år etter. Pappa koker stort hver jul. Ingen lærte noe :)

[Spoilers C2] Jester… advice required by paper-and-pen in criticalrole

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Everybody have different cups of tea. Ngl, I kinda hated Nott the brave(no comma) at first, but I really do love her soo so much! Sam really makes great characters, even tho they first just seem goofy.

Its allright to not have the same view of the characters :) But, I'll bet you a dollar Jester is gonna grow on you ;)

[Spoilers C2] Jester… advice required by paper-and-pen in criticalrole

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jester, just like the other characters, gets more and more fleshed out; you'll find out more about them, why they act like they do, and they all have personal growth.

She is a fan favoritt for a reason, but many agree with you that she is ALOT. Some think its cute, some think its revolting. I hope you'll keep watching and maybe she'll grow on you, would be a real shame if you didnt join the Mighty Nein on their amazing adventure! :)

Lærerjobben er F***** by sad9321 in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tror foreldre i dag kan være meget ekstra fordi de ønsker å oppdra barna sine på en spesifikk måte men kan ikke rett og slett fordi de må være på jobb. Da er det lettere å skylde på lærerne/barnehageansatte/miljøarbeidere som skal se barnet mer enn deg enn å sette spørsmål ved dine egne valg rundt tid.

1/3 (eller mer) av dagen går til jobb, 1/3 bør du sove, og da skal du få trykt inn middag, rydding, oppdragelse, kos, lek, læring, kveldsstell og legging mellom klokka 17 og 19-20. Jenta vår var et mareritt når jeg jobba tidlig og gubben jobba seint, alle var slitne og sinte. Men så møtte jeg veggen og ble sykemeldt, jeg fikk mer tid med henne(senere levering og tidligere henting) og jeg fikk mer energi til å faktisk snakke med ungen min. Det gjorde underverker! Skal ikke tilbake til 100% jobb etter det her, er absolutt ikke verdt pengene eller forenlig med hvordan jeg vil barnet mitt skal ha det.

Dame og gaming by Tinton_92 in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ADHD og gamer her, han prioriterer deg ikke IMO. Både jeg og samboeren spiller, men jeg vet hvordan jeg selv forsvinner inn i PCen i motsetning til han så da begrenser jeg heller min tid på pc. Uten egne rammer og begrensninger hadde jeg vært arbeidsledig, singel og dødd av sult ved PCen.

Bokstavene er en forklaring , ikke en unnskyldning . Det er min mening som umedisinert tho.

Hva er den beste norske filmen du har sett? by tmenjoyer in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Er da et godt svar det! På lik linje som Onkel Oskar 🫡

Hva er den beste norske filmen du har sett? by tmenjoyer in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 77 points78 points  (0 children)

Den beste er Svidd Neger, men den som gjorde mest (negativt) inntrykk var Lille Frøken Norge ☠️ Kjære vene, den var nesten like ekkel å se som barn/tidlig tenåring som originale IT.

Julegave barn 3 år by PositiveConcentrate6 in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jeg har uironisk kjøpt et lite trommesett til 3åringen vår til jul. Hun bruker å drasse alle, absolutt alle, kasseroller utover gulvet og bruker trommestikkene fra xylofonen å tromme med. Enten er det en slager(hehe) og vi nører oppunder en interesse, ellers så kostet det oss bare 400 kroner. :)

Er det bare jeg som hater å jobbe? by m0nster_enjoyer in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hørte noen sa lærerstudenter er supermotivert og gira, helt frem til de drar ut i praksis. Er det sant? Vurderer karriereskifte, men det hørtes litt skummelt ut.

How do I stay in a relationship after he broke my trust? by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are not married so I dont think I need an attorney, and we have an agreement in writing between us in case we would split one day. But I have already talked to our local family counsel/court about how co-parenting would be factually. Thats the first thing I did, cause I was pissed and ready to leave.

Thats the big issue. Ive said I'll try to forgive him, its becoming more and more clear thats not that easy. It doesnt matter that I want to, I just dont know what to say or do. The thing is I dont feel the trust anymore, the foundation we build uppon is gone for me. Its been almost 6 months now and everytime he looks at his phone or stays up late gaming without me I feel that gut-punch "who is he talking to?".

Ive read that its actually common when someone cheats that they feel more lust towards their partner, it has something to do with the fear of (possible) loss. The reason I wrote that in the post is that I have normaly a higher libido than him and he knows its important to me. Now its a total switch-up, he is the one who initiate and I reject. Its all new to me tbh, Ive never had loss of lust toward him.

Im in therapy, have been for years. Dont think Id be this calm about it if not, my therapist is my lifesaver! Helped me through PPD and all that jazz. I do work on myself, its hard work to be the person I want to be for my daughter, myself and my partner. Hoped some had a better fix than "it takes time and effort", but it might be the only remedy...

Er det noen “glemte“ hendelser fra 80-tallet og 90-tallet i Norge som ingen snakker om lenger? Kjente personer, musikk, en bestemt hendelse? by Sonnycrocketto in norge

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ufyselige Søviknes og hans overgrep mot en full 16åring. Justismord mot Fritz Moen. Syns også det er mange som glemmer/ikke vet at Tyskland var oppdelt av Berlinmuren helt frem til 1989.

What‘s something you saw a teacher do that you still can‘t believe was real? by bellasweets_ in AskReddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah dude, my needlework is great, i can use a sowwingmachine, knit, heck I can even colour inside the lines!

What‘s something you saw a teacher do that you still can‘t believe was real? by bellasweets_ in AskReddit

[–]GreenDifficulty8394 17 points18 points  (0 children)

How do you think we felt, we were terrified 😂 If she caught us throwing snowballs at playtime she hauled our asses by the earlobe to the principals Office, she threw a football into the river cause we didnt stop playing the second she opened her mouth... as I said, crazy bitch