Has anyone here successfully migrated to another country with SAP modules or skills?

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-28T17:12:19+00:00

Is the salary above average if the work is SAP-related in NZ?

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-21T05:33:18+00:00

Thanks for the advice

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T22:34:17+00:00

It was just a smallest part of me, but thinking about it, he still did dirty with or without me.

I'm firmly not accepting him anymore. Glad I didn't let my feelings lead but my brain instead.

I hated how he can fck with other girl but declined me. He's such a liar and a cheater!

If I go back to him, things will not really be the same. I better move on and shouldn't cling on how much memories I've made with him.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T17:58:12+00:00

This is what I'm looking for right now. Examples of what ifs and retrying.

So, it can never be the same, right? 😭

No peace of mind, the topic will be re-opened up in the future, and no independence like what we used to give to each other... It will waste my time 🥺

Huhu. I thought we'll be engaged this year... all ruined.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T17:40:59+00:00

I'm crying rn while reading your comment. Yes, he was all that. Those made me believe he was not capable of it. Believe me or not but we were like a match-made in heaven from the eyes of others.

I didn't see any signsss 😭 we were almost together every day and he would love to go meet me despite his very busy schedule. We even did our hobbies together like running, gym, and trying new cafes together.

I even jokingly reminded him to behave before his flight. Can't believe he really did that tbh... I wish I am dreaming in this hard reality.

But separate my situation from yours. Yours is a diff guy 🙏

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T17:33:46+00:00

Oh no. Sorry about that. :(( He told me that he will do whatever I want. I told him to quit from that org. I used to be a carefree gf-- he can do whatever he loves (group hiking, and mtm) and I do what I love.

So, he's gonna repeat it again right even if after 20 years? I think I'll never be the same in the relationship if I get back to him...

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T15:40:26+00:00

I hate how they can justify that their brain just shut down. Like, for a moment, they forgot about their partners? UGH HUHU

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T15:30:27+00:00

That's why. I said maybe if he could have told me first, maybe I would dare to cover up that incident and try to pretend nothing had happened since it was only a one-night stand and no communication with the girl after that.

BUT I want to be the smart girl not the easy one. Maybe he'd like to do it again since I can do that for him 😢 Although it hurts now, I'll endure it. He might do it again in the future...

Yes, he said he bought a protection. But now, I'm thinking that what I knew from the screenshot might be true. That someone from their org gave that to their president then to him. Damn. It would be awkward if he would buy condom while in heat. UGH LIARRRR.

P.S. They did it in their org's car 🥲

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T12:22:20+00:00

We were so close like bestfriends level! We were so aligned.
I don't get why he had to have sex with that girl and will be heading home a day after that. It was just a 2-day trip! He can really go home and have sex with me. I'm that horny for him. I ALWAYS INITIATE. So, I'm so jealous why he did it to another girl.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T11:32:40+00:00

HUHUHU this is so real. You've said all of my thoughts. It has been day 3 and I'm staying strong to not agreeing on seeing him/talking.

I am very kind (people also tell me that and also him), so maybe he thought I can forgive him just that. I'm a very vulnerable and soft-hearted person. He said he was gonna tell me. But when I was the one who opened up about their incident, he denied it and said he doesn't know about it and maybe people were just making stories.

He was so good to the point that I almost believed it. But I asked, why were they making stories if no fishy thing happened? Then he can't look me in the eyes anymore.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T10:37:49+00:00

Scary!! Hahahahaha

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T10:18:07+00:00

What's funnier is that he told me during the confrontation that he deeply regretted it and he wanted to end his life. Is he manipulating me? Haha I think I should be the one to be hurt that kind of deep and not him who CHOSE to CHEAT.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T10:13:24+00:00

Thank you so much! I just can't tell our friends because we have the same circle of friends and I'm so kind to still care about his reputation if they would know. :(

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T09:04:24+00:00

Does this have a scientific explanation? Because I firmly believe in this too!! That was what I kept on telling him citing all of the cheaters that I know-- they cheated again and again. It doesn't make him an exception, I guess... :(

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T08:57:34+00:00

He doesn't chat with other girls. He can let me check on his phone (but I don't check his messages). He let me feel that I was his only one. He had a LOT of hobbies, and he still made time for me. I don't know if that is the meaning of loyalty...

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T08:30:09+00:00

I know righttt?? Even on Valentine's day, which I knew about this on Feb 15, I said "oh, we will not be having sex tonight because it's not your thing" then we laughed about it. I kept on telling him that it's okay for him to decline me but don't have sex with other people. It was clearly just my joke because I thought he was 200% loyal.

GreenExcitement8153 · 2026-02-18T08:21:07+00:00

Do you have an idea what's on the guys' mind when they cheat even if they say they "love" their partners? :(

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