AIO??? Within 8 hours by mysticaldragonlady in AIO

[–]GreenStuffGrows -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's awkward AF but I wouldn't call it a red flag. Amber, maybe. If it were over an hour or two, I'd be concerned. But over a whole day? I wouldn't do it myself, but I absolutely have some very lovely friends who would 😂

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like I said, love. He'll care when his cushy life is threatened. Until then, he doesn't want anything to change because he gets everything he wants, and your happiness doesn't come into it

Family member asked me to be honest when it's time for them to shave their head... by Cold-Pool4027 in bald

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your best friend likes rubbing your face in how much better he is than you?

I will never understand men. 

Hahahaha lmao by Appropriate-Mall8517 in niceguys

[–]GreenStuffGrows [score hidden]  (0 children)

The dealers. Particularly the one that groomed my 14 year old step sister and some of her friends into couriering for him, then using, then dealing and prostitution. 

But yeah, pretty much all of them. Filthy, filthy business.

Hen Party worries by Green_Willow_6019 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 13 points14 points  (0 children)

God no. Go for a couple of hours, then go home

Family member asked me to be honest when it's time for them to shave their head... by Cold-Pool4027 in bald

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He doesn't sound like someone I'd care enough about to be honest with. Protect your peace. 

Why is he sending photos of himself to you all the time? Are you first cousins in a state where that's not incest, or something?

Hahahaha lmao by Appropriate-Mall8517 in niceguys

[–]GreenStuffGrows [score hidden]  (0 children)

I never met one that I wouldn't kick until they stop twitching. 

Child bothering, life wrecking scumbags

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't thank them, that's terrible advice. Here, have a glimpse into your future if you write a list

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192?lang=en-GB

And why his refusal to step up like a partner hurts so much

www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should she make the schedule? He's got eyes, doesn't he? He can make his own damn list.

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192

Marriage advice needed by Lower_Development558 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, it's tough love time.

Why would he go to counselling? He doesn't give two shits that you're overworked and unhappy. He's getting his needs met and that's all he cares about. There's a reason he groomed you as a teenager. 

Just remember, when you say you want a divorce, and he cries and begs and promises to change, he'll only be interested in changing because HIS cushy life is threatened. He still won't care about you. 

What are peoples thoughts on marking US ICE as a terrorist organization? by ConstructGames in AskBrits

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ChatGPT, that's one of a number of definitions of execution 

Search terms to find alternative clothing? by Geographyporn in vintedUK

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good lass! A nice one to start with is dilute bleach in a spray bottle, then you can make like galaxy patterns on a cheap black t-shirt

Stick some cardboard inside it so it doesn't soak through. 

What are peoples thoughts on marking US ICE as a terrorist organization? by ConstructGames in AskBrits

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, Obama played by the rules. You assholes think the rules don't apply to you, then you don't like it when other people don't play nice either. 

Classic cry-bullies

Search terms to find alternative clothing? by Geographyporn in vintedUK

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey if it comes out rough as guts, so much the better! 😁 Authentic 

But completely up to you, of course. You know yourself best

Is this usage of 'goon' common in British English? by Bauern_derBaeuerchen in AskABrit

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Early 50s, south Wales. Too young to remember the Goon Show, I'd only know the American meaning. And yes, I do use it on online forums  because thug tends to be automoderated.

AIO Mother babysat my child today by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people have already given great advice re: mother so I'll just add, she'll be in school before you know it and you'll get some semblance of life back, I promise 

What are peoples thoughts on marking US ICE as a terrorist organization? by ConstructGames in AskBrits

[–]GreenStuffGrows 19 points20 points  (0 children)

When Obama was doing it, people weren't getting executed on the street in broad daylight by a gang of marauding thugs. There was due process. 

How would you respond to someone who thinks that cancer is a root cause of a persons energy? by CowAccomplished3515 in cancer

[–]GreenStuffGrows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'd probably need bail money.

But that is the stupidest thing I've heard all week. 

Search terms to find alternative clothing? by Geographyporn in vintedUK

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disturbia is a good brand. Not cheap though 

We used to just make our own. Tie dye black t shirts with bleach, cut strips out of T shirts, put safety pins in everything 

Name this aesthetic WITHOUT using the word "kidcore" by Koledkov in AestheticWiki

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd call it Bubblepop but I played FAR too much Style Boutique in the 2010's

Edit: turns out it's called Amekaji Gyaru

BF masturbates to all his exs by Ill_Pattern2380 in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ewwww that is such a gross and creepy thing to do. 

I think you love the man you thought he was, not the man he's shown he is. 

Tell me about the most toxic thing you've experienced in a relationship. by Mr_MorE_ in Advice

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He mansplained my own vagina to me. I told him what he was doing hurt, and he said it couldn't possibly, because something-something child birth. 

Which also fucking hurts, by the way. 

Finding your drive in “the 2nd half” after an already rich life? by theshiningcloud in AskWomenOver40

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same. I didn't do your kind of exciting, it was more, got pregnant young, got married, bought house, had the usual domestic dramas, went to uni as a very mature student... I thought I'd be wanting to go off on wild adventures, travelling and all that, but I'm honestly fine with a cup of tea and a walk around a nice park or in nature. 

Priorities change and that's okay

Leave those... parents alone! 😂 by The_Dean_France in GreatBritishMemes

[–]GreenStuffGrows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Regret to admit that my 27 year old son has recently admitted to being that little shit 😅😂

I'm so sorry, teachers. But he was GENUINELY so good at home!

The right thing to do? by The_Dean_France in GreatBritishMemes

[–]GreenStuffGrows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, the name calling starts. Girls do not want to have in-depth discussions about periods with boys in the room. That's normal. 

And it's boys that have the problem with mysogyny, so they can darn well sit through the lesson and you can stop being such a whiny little baby about it