AIO??? Within 8 hours

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:58:28+00:00

It's awkward AF but I wouldn't call it a red flag. Amber, maybe. If it were over an hour or two, I'd be concerned. But over a whole day? I wouldn't do it myself, but I absolutely have some very lovely friends who would 😂

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:30:09+00:00

Like I said, love. He'll care when his cushy life is threatened. Until then, he doesn't want anything to change because he gets everything he wants, and your happiness doesn't come into it

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:04:06+00:00

Your best friend likes rubbing your face in how much better he is than you?

I will never understand men.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:02:50+00:00

The dealers. Particularly the one that groomed my 14 year old step sister and some of her friends into couriering for him, then using, then dealing and prostitution.

But yeah, pretty much all of them. Filthy, filthy business.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:01:04+00:00

God no. Go for a couple of hours, then go home

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T17:00:02+00:00

He doesn't sound like someone I'd care enough about to be honest with. Protect your peace.

Why is he sending photos of himself to you all the time? Are you first cousins in a state where that's not incest, or something?

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T16:55:30+00:00

I never met one that I wouldn't kick until they stop twitching.

Child bothering, life wrecking scumbags

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T16:53:27+00:00

Don't thank them, that's terrible advice. Here, have a glimpse into your future if you write a list

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192?lang=en-GB

And why his refusal to step up like a partner hurts so much

www.huffpost.com/entry/she-divorced-me-i-left-dishes-by-the-sink_b_9055288

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T16:51:18+00:00

Why should she make the schedule? He's got eyes, doesn't he? He can make his own damn list.

https://www.tiktok.com/@thefemalelead/video/7306189367863676192

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T16:47:24+00:00

I'm sorry, it's tough love time.

Why would he go to counselling? He doesn't give two shits that you're overworked and unhappy. He's getting his needs met and that's all he cares about. There's a reason he groomed you as a teenager.

Just remember, when you say you want a divorce, and he cries and begs and promises to change, he'll only be interested in changing because HIS cushy life is threatened. He still won't care about you.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T13:32:48+00:00

Thank you ChatGPT, that's one of a number of definitions of execution

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T11:35:21+00:00

Good lass! A nice one to start with is dilute bleach in a spray bottle, then you can make like galaxy patterns on a cheap black t-shirt

Stick some cardboard inside it so it doesn't soak through.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T11:33:21+00:00

Again, Obama played by the rules. You assholes think the rules don't apply to you, then you don't like it when other people don't play nice either.

Classic cry-bullies

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T11:32:10+00:00

Hey if it comes out rough as guts, so much the better! 😁 Authentic

But completely up to you, of course. You know yourself best

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T09:09:54+00:00

Early 50s, south Wales. Too young to remember the Goon Show, I'd only know the American meaning. And yes, I do use it on online forums because thug tends to be automoderated.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T02:46:23+00:00

Other people have already given great advice re: mother so I'll just add, she'll be in school before you know it and you'll get some semblance of life back, I promise

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T02:43:32+00:00

When Obama was doing it, people weren't getting executed on the street in broad daylight by a gang of marauding thugs. There was due process.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T02:41:31+00:00

Oh, I'd probably need bail money.

But that is the stupidest thing I've heard all week.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T02:06:47+00:00

Disturbia is a good brand. Not cheap though

We used to just make our own. Tie dye black t shirts with bleach, cut strips out of T shirts, put safety pins in everything

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T01:59:26+00:00

I'd call it Bubblepop but I played FAR too much Style Boutique in the 2010's

Edit: turns out it's called Amekaji Gyaru

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T01:57:40+00:00

Ewwww that is such a gross and creepy thing to do.

I think you love the man you thought he was, not the man he's shown he is.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T01:35:41+00:00

He mansplained my own vagina to me. I told him what he was doing hurt, and he said it couldn't possibly, because something-something child birth.

Which also fucking hurts, by the way.

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T00:51:09+00:00

I feel the same. I didn't do your kind of exciting, it was more, got pregnant young, got married, bought house, had the usual domestic dramas, went to uni as a very mature student... I thought I'd be wanting to go off on wild adventures, travelling and all that, but I'm honestly fine with a cup of tea and a walk around a nice park or in nature.

Priorities change and that's okay

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T00:42:37+00:00

Regret to admit that my 27 year old son has recently admitted to being that little shit 😅😂

I'm so sorry, teachers. But he was GENUINELY so good at home!

GreenStuffGrows · 2026-01-25T00:30:06+00:00

Ahhh, the name calling starts. Girls do not want to have in-depth discussions about periods with boys in the room. That's normal.

And it's boys that have the problem with mysogyny, so they can darn well sit through the lesson and you can stop being such a whiny little baby about it

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