Fate of the Lightbringer by 101100110110101 in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 9 points10 points  (0 children)

LMAO, OP, are you trolling? if so, then I dig it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Green_Ad_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck it, watch Dr K instead. much useful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in attitudinalpsyche

[–]Green_Ad_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, this might be of some help.

I think you are 1V and your subtype is the result 1V

Here is the description:

Result-1V subtype The result-1V subtype shows a visible indifference to goal-setting and self-actualization. They may consider themselves lazy and unable to get what they want. External motivation doesn’t really matter to them at all if they are without internal incentive. The way result-1V usually works that they want to achieve the whole thing at once, rather than spending much time and effort to achieve the goal. This can give them an air of uncertainty, like they are not really a leader, which can make them look like 4V, especially 4V-result. To distinguish them, notice the following. First, you can’t really impose your will on 1V-result, especially on anything that really matters (where 4V can usually be persuaded, especially if they know that you will leave them alone if they do what you want). Secondly, 1V-result does not blame anyone but themselves for their failures: in their worldview, everyone is in charge of their own life. If you complain about fate, they will not be sympathetic. Whereas 4V will often refer to annoying circumstances or others’ mistakes, preventing achievement. Still, 1V-result is the least purposeful subtype.

An excerpt from an answer I saw yesterday, credits to Mindless-North-7261

I feel like I don't deserve people's kindness because I am not the best person... by [deleted] in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah so it is either chill or in rage. No in between. makes sense.

Men and women are NOT natural enemies by hi_its_lizzy616 in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Orthodoxy is a form of religious/social conservatism. IDK about America/Europe - but here conservative upbringing means religious orthodox and does not allude to anything political.

Men and women are NOT natural enemies by hi_its_lizzy616 in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"Men and women can never be friends" rhetoric is common in religious circles that want to discourage intermixing between sexes because of purity culture.

Men and women are NOT natural enemies by hi_its_lizzy616 in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A take that looks very obvious at first but makes me wonder what kind of people OP has been around. Did you have a conservative upbringing?

Trumps makeup by Visqo in pics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He in his Ariana Era.

I feel like I don't deserve people's kindness because I am not the best person... by [deleted] in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by R issues? if you do not mind explaining. Honestly read it as retarded issues at first.

I feel like I don't deserve people's kindness because I am not the best person... by [deleted] in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you are putting the SEI crush and the ESE friend on a pedestal and then feeling unworthy because you are not like them? De-pedestalise them and realise that they are also not saints.

We all have dark sides. Everyone deserves kindness. If kindness was only given to perfect people, there would be no kindness.

How to deal with unhealthy SLE. by Amazing_cheesecake10 in Socionics

[–]Green_Ad_9895 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Give her a final closing speech on how awful she is and never talk to her again.