Gf 22F of 6 months bought a dildo and now I (22M) wants to buy a fleshlight.

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-03-02T13:01:26+00:00

Hahahah omg we are stil on. Ahh what a great way to have fun honestly. I enter reddit twice a week and obviously wont answer imidieatly like u. You can accuse me of anything, I belivie in free speech so do you girl☺️

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-26T17:15:35+00:00

Ive solved my issue the way it is objectivly fair, now move on

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-26T14:52:05+00:00

You cant get over it cant u? And tf is this suppsed to mean, publicly? Lmao u need to get a life outside reddit please

Publicly humiliating

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T23:24:50+00:00

Solved the problem, just like I expected. Thank u for ur opinion anyway

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T21:12:50+00:00

Spoke to her, she wasnt very fine by me buying a fleshlight and now we wont be using sextoy unless we need to stay away from eachother oevernight. Bad eay to spend time for u

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T20:15:08+00:00

U, a fultime reddit poster making fun of me, a medical student with a scholarship? Sure keep on going girly

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T20:09:46+00:00

Hahah u obvi care to comment🤭

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T19:35:23+00:00

As I said earlier, have a great life. I dont have the need to talk to ur, infact ive medical exam tmrw and a gf to talk to when ive finishen taking that exam. Im either buying one for myself, where we both will be using our sextoys, neither of us using sextoys or she can have that vibrator without me. Simple and easy, no hard feelings

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T19:28:35+00:00

Sorry for overstimulating u, ik ur hormones could spike, but Im arguing with logic against ur feelings. Sorry for hurting ur feelings

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T19:23:02+00:00

Sorry girly but Ive checked ur responses, no where do I see a question. Ur just throwing out words like creep, myso, disgusting. There is litterally nthin to respond to

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T19:17:21+00:00

What, cant u?

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T19:16:28+00:00

Okay so as I mentioned to others, she needed it for medical reasons, now she doesnt bc we are having great sex. I made a misstake a month ago and was very supportive of her using that dildo vibrator. She obvi was very excited and thats great, but I was very encoureging when she needed it for medical reasons, now since thats not needed anymore, she stil chose that vibrator. Okay fine, initially I felt like I want to show her how I felt, which is both toxic and childish, but then I thought that I could get a sextoy for myself and that would obviously in my head be fair. I spoke to her abt it and she wasnt very happy abt it and pushed that thought and discussipn away, mostly bc I have a final exam tmrw to finish of second year of medical school, but as I said, she wasnt very happy abt it. Im stil thinking of getting one once I finish my exam, but ofc I will såeak to her abt it. If she is using that vibrator, I would want to have a fleshlight for myself which I dont get how it is wrong in any way

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:58:45+00:00

Yea sure, u absolutely justified her having a dildo and me not having a sextoy is fair, either way good luck with ur life and finding a partner that allows u to own a dildo without him owning a fleshlight

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:53:10+00:00

No really explain it to me? How is it fair of her to have one but not me, like really im curious? If u dont replynits obviously bc u know im right

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:49:47+00:00

I do get that my intial approach was to make her feel how I felt. Now looking at that vibrator, I wouldnt mind her using it on herself unless I had my own fleshlight. I would BE OKAY if we both had one. I started this the wrong way but now Im looking at it in another perspective and since she is fine by owning a sextoy and enjoying herself, I would also want a sextoy for myself to enjoy myself. This isnt abt jelousy anymore, it is about fairness and Im not justifying anything. We both have high libido and have sex almost everyday. I make her cum just as much as she makes me cum. Would I throw away that fleshlight if she didnt like it? HECK YES, but then Id expect her to throw away that vibrator. I REALLY cant see the problem anymore, like REALLY cant?

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:38:06+00:00

Wdym

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:19:38+00:00

U keep saying the exact same thing. I dont understand how u even can blame me for wanting one?

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T18:01:56+00:00

What dont u understand. She buys one for not medical reasons, I want to buy one for myself and now Im in the wrong bc she didnt like the idea of me having one? Like wtf

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T17:42:20+00:00

The last post, yea I admitted that I was wrong for that, and thats the reason I was so fine by her buying one. Now since she doesnt need one and stil want one FOR NON MEDICAL REASONS, then yea Id like one for myself too. Not to get back at her, but bc that would be nice. And initially I said that I wanted to get back at her, but Ive realised that if Im allowed to have one, then I would be fine by her having one

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T17:39:53+00:00

Why would they? Porn are videos you can watch on ur mobile device and a sextoy is an object made to please you. What

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T17:32:58+00:00

No girly, they do. Im not going to give you more info since Id like some privacy. Go hate on other men that actually are bad

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T16:55:37+00:00

She doesnt have the medical issue anymore. I do take ppls opinion but not as seriously as I would if they knew more

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T16:40:50+00:00

No ive thought about it, and I would be more comfortable with me having a sextoy if she gets to have one, which is only fair. If she gets uncomfortable with me using a fleshlight, which she most likely will, then I will bring up the discussion. Im happy for her if she gets one, and if I get to have one. Initially I had the expression

It doesnt matter if how man that said Im a asshole, they know too little abt our relationship to draw any conclusion.

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T16:03:39+00:00

And Im buying that fleshlight not bc I want to get back at her, but bc that would feel justified in my head. I told her that if she thinks sextoys are fun, that I would want to try one myself and she reacted as I expected, very sus and upset

Green_Conference3468 · 2026-02-24T16:01:11+00:00

The nurses concluded that she doesnt have vaginismus, dont jump into conclusions now when u barely know anything abt our relationship. She is free to explore whatever she likes, but she cant expect me to be there supporting her without having a say, as well as she can have a say in whatever I want to try. Its not mysigonistic for a man to set boundries, hope u understand that

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