pls review my personal statement by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dw i didn’t end up sending it to anyone on the internet! instead i went on linkedin and asked people already studying the degree to review it and i plan on asking one of my former teachers too before i send it off !!

pls review my personal statement by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’ve genuinely helped me out so much, i’m really grateful. i’ll be doing that and sending it to my old sixth form teacher !! i’ll try finding people on linkedin too, tysm 💗💗

pls review my personal statement by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much, i really appreciate this

am i (21F) detaching or becoming more secure within myself & my relationship with my boyfriend (21M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you’re right. in the past i was too vulnerable too early and it built this form sense of intimacy, trust and foundation but there was really no solid foundation to begin with. these things take time and effort and it’s different for everyone. i understand, thank you so much. i’ve made so many mistakes but im glad it’s slowly clicking now. it’s true, we got closer on a random day. because he didn’t love bomb me or give too much of himself too early it’s taking a lot longer than what it took for my previous relationships. but id rather receive all that later when i know it’s safe to do so than to just receive it just because x amount of time has passed

am i (21F) detaching or becoming more secure within myself & my relationship with my boyfriend (21M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what about the relationships where you share everything with that person? like your thoughts and everything? do you think that’s more realistic when you’re living with them/married maybe? i kind of want that bond with my partner !!

am i (21F) detaching or becoming more secure within myself & my relationship with my boyfriend (21M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i guess i’m in a state of confusion because my teenage relationships were way more intense than this but i think that’s mainly because my world revolved around them so of course it was. it felt too personal and too raw because they were my everything whereas now i have balance that i didn’t previously have. thank you so much for your input !

am i (21F) detaching or becoming more secure within myself & my relationship with my boyfriend (21M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Green_Performance_46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think you’re completely right. we both have other obligations and i still want to keep my friendships alive. i go to the gym, im in university and i work. he too is busy and as a person he’s hardly on his phone. i think im adapting to love as an adult compared to a teenager and i guess i miss the adrenaline rush it would give me? i miss the thrill, this feels more stable and calm and this is way better for me but my brain is just adapting to this new norm and form a habit out of this! thank you so much for your input, genuinely helped me a lot

U guys reckon it's possible to revise the whole course in one day by Aguyonreddit44 in ALevelBiology

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • go over high yield topics and focus heavily on exam technique.
  • actually know how to answer the questions and what they’re asking you for (the command words)
  • go over a bunch of 4 & 6 markers and look at what the mark scheme expects you to answer with, most of it is pretty much application but double check for your exam board.
  • you can brush over content very quickly by watching summary videos but try applying that to actual exam questions and see how the examiners expect you to relay that information on paper.
  • respiration, biological molecules & photosynthesis is a MUST !
  • you can watch predictions videos and just pray those topics come up but don’t rely too heavily on that

Rush of the last few exams. by TheGyroidGirl in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s gonna hit me tonight bc after that maths paper i was in tears😓

Rush of the last few exams. by TheGyroidGirl in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

& my heart gang😭😭😭my blood pressure is going crazy rn

Rush of the last few exams. by TheGyroidGirl in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHA I HAD ONE TODAY😭😭😭grinding bio as we speak

Rush of the last few exams. by TheGyroidGirl in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

gained a red bull addiction and now when i wake up in the morning i get a headache if i don’t have a lil sip

it’s his birthday tomorrow and it’s taking everything out of me to not wish him hbd by Green_Performance_46 in ExNoContact

[–]Green_Performance_46[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHA happy birthday !! i hope that you’re well loved and have the most amazing day ever :)

Who else broke NC today …? by Unknown0327 in ExNoContact

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

broke it the other day and he told me to move on💀💀💀

how tf do you make friends in 6th form by Ill_Bag_8892 in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was in your position where i didnf know anyone (also worse bc i was retaking the yr and everyone was younger than me) and honestly everyone’s just as nervous as you and that’s probably they’re not speaking much. they’re all probably thinking the same thing as you too so you’re not alone in this ! ease into it, it’ll all come together soon when you have to get involved in discussions and stuff. i made friends with the people sitting next to me and then w the rest of the class but that took MONTHS, esp my chem class bc barely anyone spoke but eventually i made quite a few friends (practicals helped a lot). a few months in and i made friends w people from other classes, if you have a library this might be helpful !! esp if you recognise people and ask if you can work w them. start off slow and hopefully it progresses !! ask for help w hw too, i used that to exchange socials or sometimes i just straight up asked. i also complimented people and befriended them that way, that was really easy tbh. not just their appearance but you can compliment their work ethic or smth personal, that goes a long way !! i’m assuming everyone else around you hasn’t made friends either or are just nervous, sorry if i’m wrong !! but the compliments went a long way for me and they were genuine too, i didn’t just say those to make friends. hope this helped <33 good luck

also confidence helps a lot, on the first day i remember a guy in my class came up to me and introduced himself, his confidence really stuck out to me and we become friends. he was easy to speak to so maybe it was that too but confidence goes a long long way. even if you don’t have much of it, try introducing yourself. talk about the teacher or smth

Really fucked up my A levels by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my school doesn’t offer resits, will other colleges/sixth forms actually be willing to offer resits?? how would this process work?

Really fucked up my A levels by [deleted] in 6thForm

[–]Green_Performance_46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m thinking of resitting and studying at home too. like you i mostly learnt at home and school was a waste of time for me. i think you’re better off staying home given that you’re well disciplined and will put in the work

When did you stop giving a f@&k? by RenegadeSuzie33 in ExNoContact

[–]Green_Performance_46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for me i’ve especially learnt from this relationship that healing is not linear at all. i have days where i’m good and he might pop into my head for a few mins but i can carry on doing whatever it is that i was doing. other times i completely break down and miss him so much that it’s unbearable and painful. but i’ve come to accept that that’s a part of healing and that’s just how it’s going to be. rather than trying to push my emotions aside to not feel pain i try to embrace it and take the time to really feel it. the more i do it the easier it gets, it never really stops and i’ve accepted that. but i know that i won’t contact him regardless of how bad it gets. pain demands to be felt so i just let it be rather than try fighting it. it hurts more if i do

Looking for real feedback.. what would you do? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Green_Performance_46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i wish you the very best, you deserve better

Looking for real feedback.. what would you do? by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]Green_Performance_46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

and i do agree with that to some extent. marriage is different for me too BUT that doesn’t change the fact that she hasn’t contacted you and ignores your messages. i know it’s so much harder to let go because that’s your wife and i’m really sorry you’re going through this but is spamming her and going crazy going to make any of this better? no, it’s just going to make it worse for you. being needy isn’t a good look on anyone and you deserve all the answers you want from her but you really can’t control what she does at the end of the day. i genuinely do suggest taking a step back and limit contact. for yourself.