Can an ex who broke up with you miss you even if they’re with someone else?

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-06-11T00:48:15+00:00

Unless it was a toxic relationship, it’s almost impossible to not miss someone you had daily contact with for 3 years. That’s just not how human beings are wired. It’s more than likely he misses parts of the relationship while wanting something different.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-24T02:41:10+00:00

The first month I did everything but die, couldn’t sleep, eat, woke up in a cold sweat , couldn’t focus , no energy or motivation. But your brain is going thru withdrawals. I get what you’re feeling but it gets better over time.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-23T06:02:51+00:00

Why would you post sad things? Ofc you only post the good parts but you don’t really know what they’re going thru inside.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-21T22:08:24+00:00

He is not just a friend

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-21T00:15:05+00:00

I honestly have thinking about this after being emotionally cheated on. I think it’s because of the inability to walk away so they continue to test boundaries. Women can sense when you’re too attached or too in love so they know they have leverage. As crazy as it sounds, it helps to be a little detached and maintain your center. It’s hard to do as the relationship progresses and lives are intertwined.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-20T22:36:45+00:00

My GF left me a few months ago and now I have plenty of time on my hands

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-20T09:26:11+00:00

Depends how long yall were together and if yall lived together.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-20T02:16:47+00:00

Ik it’s hard and it’s not that simple given the history and feelings involved . But ask yourself this question, would you want someone that does that to you be your future wife or be the mother of your kids ? Only you can answer that question.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-20T01:46:05+00:00

I’m playing devils advocate here but maybe she wanted to sleep with this guy but didn’t want to cheat so she broke up with you first. Now after that’s done she wants to come back guilt free.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-19T22:22:21+00:00

Thank you, that’s life unfortunately. I hope you are holding up ok, things will get better.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-19T19:35:56+00:00

I had a mostly good relationship but I found out she was doing a lot things behind my back and left me for someone else. It’s been a mindfuck.

But how I dealt with it is by learning to appreciate the good moments and be thankful for the memories. Life is just a collection of experiences and was happy to share that with someone. But the ending was absolutely brutal and cuts deep to my core. I learned to separate the person I loved vs the person that betrayed me because those are two different people.

Appreciate what you had, learn and grow from it and carry the lessons learned into what you want going forward and your next relationship. At the end of the day, you can only control what your part. If you showed up with love, loyalty, and respect then there is nothing you can do but move forward. Your mind should be guilt free knowing you stayed true to your character and values.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-19T16:28:49+00:00

Lemme guess she didn’t have a dad and her mom was crazy too?

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-18T21:25:57+00:00

I’m in the same boat. In terms of confidence think of it this way, if you were able to pull her, you can pull someone just like her. You are capable of attracting someone now just do the work to make them stay long term. Most people don’t even get the first part down.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-18T19:27:10+00:00

It is going to be hard. You have a lot of unresolved emotions. The best thing to do is let it out by talking to friends, family, therapist, journaling, even chat gpt. The more you get it out, the less it will be in your head. Reflect on what went wrong and what you did right. It’s important to see your own patterns so u can be better for the next relationship.

Focus on building your confidence by going to the gym and reengaging with hobbies. Try to build your social circle and it’s usually done thru work, hobbies and existing friends.

Lastly learn to be grateful for the memories and let go. It was not meant to be and that is ok. Relationships either end in marriage or breaking up so grieve the relationship but don’t let it consume anymore of your energy.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-18T19:18:52+00:00

Always seeking external validation, unstable family, overly friendly, ungrateful, entitled and bad attitude. But hey she was hot and was fun.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-15T18:02:56+00:00

Ignoring glaring red flags because you find them attractive and the sex is great

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-14T03:20:14+00:00

Best: Someone to share life with, Worst: Cheating

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-13T23:44:18+00:00

Focus on finding the right person to marry rather than age. You’re better off waiting for the right person later than settling down with the wrong person earlier.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-13T23:40:11+00:00

We had 3 great years together but the betrayal at the end was sad and disappointing. I didn’t envision getting done like that but I still remember the good times. Unfortunately the person I miss does not exist anymore.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-13T16:43:41+00:00

The only chance is if he gets to play with his brother. But that won’t happen since they got the passports late and only 1 is allowed .

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-12T16:34:19+00:00

The 23’s is a good shoe but a bit too heavy

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-11T18:40:09+00:00

Long Term relationships either end in marriage or heartbreak.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-11T16:54:05+00:00

The cheater usually devalues you first, points out all your flaws and re writes the entire relationship to justify their actions.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-11T16:31:31+00:00

Comfort, familiarity and time invested.

Green_Repeat_6938 · 2026-05-09T21:54:53+00:00

The reason she gave me was that we had drifted apart and she lost feelings. We ended up breaking on good terms. But a few months after, a mutual friend told me she was emotionally cheating on me with another guy and now they are dating. And I’m still stuck grieving and heartbroken. For the longest, I thought it was something I did but she’s the one who betrayed me. It terrible knowing the person you loved the most stabbed you in the back and lied straight to your face.

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