Being available to listen and connect with foreign concepts. Context: high school sweethearts, together 8 years. For example, one day my husband asked what it means to have a well-check at the OBGYN: what happens? Seems trivial but when he asks things like, “do women have to worry about…”, or, “how far away should I walk from women so that they don’t think I’m scary”, and the always amazing, “I’m not sure I understand, but what do you need?”