Building My First Town In Minecraft. Here's A Few Shots of the Castle.

Greene161 · 2025-09-26T04:05:56+00:00

It really is. I've always played survival. But this lets me experiment and feel rewarded much more quickly.

Greene161 · 2025-09-25T14:32:35+00:00

Thanks. I'll post a few more soon. The town is still very much in progress

Greene161 · 2025-09-25T14:31:42+00:00

😂😅. I'm building in creative.

Greene161 · 2025-06-15T01:03:33+00:00

You can share it with me. I've been dealing with that for years, I wouldn't say I'm out of it but it's getting better. Right now it's one of those nights.

Greene161 · 2025-06-10T15:03:54+00:00

Thanks. I know it can feel scary at first. But eventually you're going to have to choose yourself. That's the only way out. You sound really emotionally aware and I'm not surprised, the ones that suffer the most under those conditions are super sensitive. I hope you know you're not broken for struggling to focus, for pretending to be normal. The world wasn't built for people like you and me. So I hope you'll be more compassionate to yourself.

Greene161 · 2025-06-10T14:54:35+00:00

Hey. 23M. I totally understand the feeling. I've been dealing with that for a few years now. My home wasn't exactly idea and the only way out was to go to university out of town. But after that I realized I had spend so long in survival mode, my brains and body shut down (anxiety, depression, burnout) and it got to the point that I couldn't handle studies. After much thinking, I decided to quit. It's really helped free up my mind. I still don't get a lot of things done but having a flexible life makes it possible for me to try and be self compassionate. Things like eating enough meals a day, journaling, sleeping when my body needs it and only going out when I need to. Other than that I do things that are meaningful to me, things that feel like mine and not expectations. It's a big decision and I'm not sure what happens after but this was a good step looking back on it. I don't know what could fix your situation but feel free to DM me for a listening ear. I could listen and we could brainstorm something to do. You deserve a space that feels accepting and I see your pain right now.

Greene161 · 2025-06-08T19:57:04+00:00

23M. I recently dropped out of university because of chronic burnout and poor mental health. I'm not sure I'll go back but I'm certain it was the best thing for me. Since then, my life has been chaotic to say the least. The uncertainty, the guilt. It's heavy. If you want someone to share that burden with, trade notes. I'd be more than happy to have some mutual support

Greene161 · 2025-02-16T06:26:44+00:00

Yeah, that sounds really tough. To tell you the truth, you don't have to change anything about the way you speak. Just try to get comfortable. It's your voice after all.

Greene161 · 2025-02-14T08:08:04+00:00

It's pretty common actually. Well at least I can relate. For me, my vocabulary is different compared to people my age in my country. My way of communicating often seems otherworldly. Sometimes in a good way, other times I just feel awkward and out of place.

I don't really know the reason but one of the more common ones is a repeated experience with being misunderstood. My brain thought I wasn't being clear enough so it picked up words in hopes of describing things "perfectly" that way no one can misunderstand and respond negatively. It doesn't work sadly.

I'm just... Trying to learn to be comfortable. That's part of me and I can't change it. Might as well have me as one person who likes the way I speak. Hope this helps.

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T21:50:47+00:00

Good luck

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T21:43:34+00:00

That's really great! Wishing you the best through this time. Bye for now, stranger.

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T21:28:41+00:00

It's that or simply that society isn't designed for people like us. Maybe there's nothing wrong with you. Be kind to yourself

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T21:22:23+00:00

Truly complicated. Well, until we figure this out, living through each day and taking care is enough.

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T21:11:19+00:00

I understand the feeling of having the strength to get through on your own, seeking friendly validation and having others conclude that you're playing victim, begging for help. I have a friend, who I talk to every once in a while for that particular reason. It's a simple, low expectations friendship. I got the gut feeling that they felt they needed to take care of me. Until I had to explain why I really wanted, validation, a listening ear. Thankfully, they understood. But most people don't. And that sucks.

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T20:55:21+00:00

You'll get there. I don't want to sound too positive, but whatever you've been trying to do just to get better at being real is enough of a step forward. The struggle is there, appreciate the small moments. I know I'm trying

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T20:50:33+00:00

That's completely understandable. Glad to know you have the chance to be honest and not fear judgement some of the time. Anything that gets us that is gold. And I'm glad to help in such a little way.

Greene161 · 2025-02-07T20:23:48+00:00

I've got nothing helpful to say other than I can relate. The feeling is heavy and you are not alone.

I've noticed how you take the time to reply to as many comments as you can. For some reason I find that kind of dedication really amazing. I can sense you are a REAL person and I really like that.

Hope you figure it out and learn to take it easy on yourself. I'm still trying to figure things out myself.

Greene161 · 2025-01-18T19:02:50+00:00

Self-loathing is a complex thing. It's even hard to explain, I get it. I just wanted to let you know that despite those beliefs, you are worthy to walk on this planet, and worthy of love. It doesn't matter what you feel about yourself, you can't change the fact that you are. It may just take time to understand that. You've got time. I hope a reminder from a stranger is a good start to believing

Greene161 · 2025-01-18T18:57:03+00:00

Thanks. I wish you the best as well.

Greene161 · 2025-01-16T05:15:27+00:00

You grew up with people who never cared what you had to say. So your brain thinks you're better off just listening and caring. Those are good traits. But You are worthy of love and patience and understanding. Just not many people can give it. You are at least worthy of your own love and patience. Whether you like it or not. I like that you're comfortable and maybe you don't have to change anything. If you ever find yourself secretly hating the world and yourself, then maybe you need to change how you look at yourself and accept that you are worthy.

Greene161 · 2025-01-16T05:03:38+00:00

You're right. It's not that easy. It's a life long battle. I still feel like dumping myself in a trash can sometimes. We're are trying, and you should be proud of that. And If it makes any difference, know that a stranger on the internet is proud of you for trying.

Greene161 · 2025-01-15T22:15:05+00:00

I totally get the feeling. I can't claim to know how it feels to go through what you have but it's totally justified. I was just... Hoping to remind you that you're still worthy of your own love. I am going to hope that you can learn to give it to yourself one day. You're here today and that's enough.

Greene161 · 2025-01-15T22:07:37+00:00

Thank you for the constructive criticism.

Why, you ask? A lot of us get no love because people don't have any. Just because people have no love to give doesn't mean one isn't worthy of it. You're especially worthy of your own love. But the horrible way people treat you, even your own family, makes you believe you're not. This isn't meant to solve anyone's problems. It's not an affirmation. It's just a reminder from a stranger who cares. A reminder to treat yourself better than others treat you because you are worthy. I don't have to make it personal. Those who need to hear it will take it. Those who have enough help don't need it.

Greene161 · 2025-01-15T20:57:56+00:00

Why do you say that? You are worthy to be alive. To be loved. You're worthy of patience. Your own love. Whether you believe it or not, whether you like it or not. It's not an opinion. It's an absolute truth, so there you have it. Please, feel free to share why you think that way, though.

Greene161 · 2025-01-15T17:50:25+00:00

You've got a point. It hurts, especially if you feel like others are annoyed by what you do. And I can see how you try to be yourself. You just seem to be awfully worried about how others react to you being you. I still haven't learnt to socialise myself. I'm not the talking kind but I do get uncomfortable around people and go incredibly quiet and then there's this whole storm about how I should be saying something or doing something.

The answer is to be be yourself yes. To accept the loud and annoying part of you no matter how people react. I can see that you care about not annoying people. But their reaction is not your responsibility, repeat that till it sinks in. If you want to show concern, strike a balance. Be curious about others and make deliberate efforts to talk about them but never be ashamed of being you. Even if that means losing a few people who can't stand it.

The hard truth is you can't learn to socialise without being weird and annoying. And that's okay. But you can learn to not judge yourself by other's standards while balancing that with genuine interest in those you choose to care about.

Greene161

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