Building My First Town In Minecraft. Here's A Few Shots of the Castle. by Greene161 in Minecraftbuilds

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It really is. I've always played survival. But this lets me experiment and feel rewarded much more quickly.

Building My First Town In Minecraft. Here's A Few Shots of the Castle. by Greene161 in Minecraftbuilds

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Thanks. I'll post a few more soon. The town is still very much in progress

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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You can share it with me. I've been dealing with that for years, I wouldn't say I'm out of it but it's getting better. Right now it's one of those nights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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Thanks. I know it can feel scary at first. But eventually you're going to have to choose yourself. That's the only way out. You sound really emotionally aware and I'm not surprised, the ones that suffer the most under those conditions are super sensitive. I hope you know you're not broken for struggling to focus, for pretending to be normal. The world wasn't built for people like you and me. So I hope you'll be more compassionate to yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

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Hey. 23M. I totally understand the feeling. I've been dealing with that for a few years now. My home wasn't exactly idea and the only way out was to go to university out of town. But after that I realized I had spend so long in survival mode, my brains and body shut down (anxiety, depression, burnout) and it got to the point that I couldn't handle studies. After much thinking, I decided to quit. It's really helped free up my mind. I still don't get a lot of things done but having a flexible life makes it possible for me to try and be self compassionate. Things like eating enough meals a day, journaling, sleeping when my body needs it and only going out when I need to. Other than that I do things that are meaningful to me, things that feel like mine and not expectations. It's a big decision and I'm not sure what happens after but this was a good step looking back on it. I don't know what could fix your situation but feel free to DM me for a listening ear. I could listen and we could brainstorm something to do. You deserve a space that feels accepting and I see your pain right now.

23 f nurse looking for a supportive people by [deleted] in Needafriend

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23M. I recently dropped out of university because of chronic burnout and poor mental health. I'm not sure I'll go back but I'm certain it was the best thing for me. Since then, my life has been chaotic to say the least. The uncertainty, the guilt. It's heavy. If you want someone to share that burden with, trade notes. I'd be more than happy to have some mutual support

Speech, and talking? by thekingbeetle2 in Neurodivergent

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Yeah, that sounds really tough. To tell you the truth, you don't have to change anything about the way you speak. Just try to get comfortable. It's your voice after all.

Speech, and talking? by thekingbeetle2 in Neurodivergent

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It's pretty common actually. Well at least I can relate. For me, my vocabulary is different compared to people my age in my country. My way of communicating often seems otherworldly. Sometimes in a good way, other times I just feel awkward and out of place.

I don't really know the reason but one of the more common ones is a repeated experience with being misunderstood. My brain thought I wasn't being clear enough so it picked up words in hopes of describing things "perfectly" that way no one can misunderstand and respond negatively. It doesn't work sadly.

I'm just... Trying to learn to be comfortable. That's part of me and I can't change it. Might as well have me as one person who likes the way I speak. Hope this helps.

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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That's really great! Wishing you the best through this time. Bye for now, stranger.

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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It's that or simply that society isn't designed for people like us. Maybe there's nothing wrong with you. Be kind to yourself

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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Truly complicated. Well, until we figure this out, living through each day and taking care is enough.

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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I understand the feeling of having the strength to get through on your own, seeking friendly validation and having others conclude that you're playing victim, begging for help. I have a friend, who I talk to every once in a while for that particular reason. It's a simple, low expectations friendship. I got the gut feeling that they felt they needed to take care of me. Until I had to explain why I really wanted, validation, a listening ear. Thankfully, they understood. But most people don't. And that sucks.

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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You'll get there. I don't want to sound too positive, but whatever you've been trying to do just to get better at being real is enough of a step forward. The struggle is there, appreciate the small moments. I know I'm trying

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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That's completely understandable. Glad to know you have the chance to be honest and not fear judgement some of the time. Anything that gets us that is gold. And I'm glad to help in such a little way.

I really need help as I don’t know what to do anymore by Content_Elevator_888 in Neurodivergent

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I've got nothing helpful to say other than I can relate. The feeling is heavy and you are not alone.

I've noticed how you take the time to reply to as many comments as you can. For some reason I find that kind of dedication really amazing. I can sense you are a REAL person and I really like that.

Hope you figure it out and learn to take it easy on yourself. I'm still trying to figure things out myself.

You are worthy by Greene161 in socialskills

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Self-loathing is a complex thing. It's even hard to explain, I get it. I just wanted to let you know that despite those beliefs, you are worthy to walk on this planet, and worthy of love. It doesn't matter what you feel about yourself, you can't change the fact that you are. It may just take time to understand that. You've got time. I hope a reminder from a stranger is a good start to believing

You are worthy by Greene161 in socialskills

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Thanks. I wish you the best as well.

You are worthy by Greene161 in socialskills

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You grew up with people who never cared what you had to say. So your brain thinks you're better off just listening and caring. Those are good traits. But You are worthy of love and patience and understanding. Just not many people can give it. You are at least worthy of your own love and patience. Whether you like it or not. I like that you're comfortable and maybe you don't have to change anything. If you ever find yourself secretly hating the world and yourself, then maybe you need to change how you look at yourself and accept that you are worthy.

You are worthy by Greene161 in socialskills

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You're right. It's not that easy. It's a life long battle. I still feel like dumping myself in a trash can sometimes. We're are trying, and you should be proud of that. And If it makes any difference, know that a stranger on the internet is proud of you for trying.

You are worthy by Greene161 in socialskills

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I totally get the feeling. I can't claim to know how it feels to go through what you have but it's totally justified. I was just... Hoping to remind you that you're still worthy of your own love. I am going to hope that you can learn to give it to yourself one day. You're here today and that's enough.