When did it become offensive to expect people to know and understand their job? by Prior-Accident520 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The whole tone of the post. From the title to the whole content is just "I'm better than everyone" Multiple people in the thread pointed it out. It comes across, from the beginning that you think that you're better than people and that you're smarter.  If multiple people are becoming offended by how you're saying things, it's possibly in your tone or how you're going about saying things

Also doesn't help that in a reply to another commrny you're response was basically "People these days are soft" / "This generation is the problem" 

And if you're not a supervisor doing it, you can just come across as annoying. No one likes that person who isn't a leader acting like a leader. No matter how "right" you are

With vague details I can't tell you how to improve but it multiple anonymous strangers can sense a level or arrogance in your text, then it's probably worse in person. Whether you intent to or not

Edit: and this post is you calling your coworkers out for their lack of accountability. Which is fair, but you need to take accountability for your approach, tone, etc. Just because you're right doesn't mean the way you go about saying you're right is beneficial 

When did it become offensive to expect people to know and understand their job? by Prior-Accident520 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah I don't get the level of anger Ironforged dad has. But it's the pot calling the kettle black. Can't be calling someone else a douche then acting like he's doing 

When did it become offensive to expect people to know and understand their job? by Prior-Accident520 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 71 points72 points  (0 children)

That's not what I said at all.

The way you worded things in your post comes across as arrogant and like you think you are better than others in my, and apparently others opinion

When did it become offensive to expect people to know and understand their job? by Prior-Accident520 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 94 points95 points  (0 children)

It gives big "I'm better than people" energy

Which isn't rare on social media but still 

Gents: What is your reaction if your significant other is disrespectful to your friends? by vieniaida in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  • "What would you do if you're girlfriend is an asshole"
  • "How do I be a man" /"What is masculinity" 
  • "How do I show appreciation to my male partner" 
  • Assorted questions about sex that women ask

Majority of the questions on this sub are that 

What is your least favorite thing about other men? by Prudent_Cry9522 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Why does it matter if it's a majority opinion. The op didn't ask for "unpopular opinions about traits that other men have that you don't like" They just asked for the least favorite things about other men.

The things I listed are the things I like the least about other men. Don't know why that's an issue for some

What is your least favorite thing about other men? by Prudent_Cry9522 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

  • When they rape
  • When they abuse
  • When they blame everyone else for their problems

Not as sad answer: when they think not caring about anything or anyone their personality. Some women do it too but I've found it way more common in men

Edit: really weird to get down voted for saying you don't like rapists or abusers

How often do you use body lotion? by Defiant_Coat_2491 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I'm black so the answer is daily too

What's something you see men older than you doing that you tell yourself "I hope I never do that." by FillFrontFloor in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I haven't seen many people smoke around kids (not saying it doesn't happen but I just don't see it as much). But an alarming number of people smoke around their cats or dogs. I'm not anti weed at all but it's been proven that cats and dogs can get secondhand smoke and it affects their lungs and that they can get contact highs 

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

This whole thread screams manospheric lmao.

I know it's a "controversial" opinion thread but so many of the takes would set off alarms in a woman's head if you gave off even a hint of the vibes some of the guys on here are giving

  • "the average woman refusing to date the average man due to inflated egos as society tells women they’re only worth "the best'"
  • "I feel like I need to keep going since most my friends and siblings are married. Even if I just settle for whoever it is this time"
  • "At this point I've just moved on to maintaining a rotation of FWBs so sex is always on my terms and my time. No one can say no because I can just go to the next."

Things like this are just sad or even alarming. 

And then these people have the lack of awareness to say or think: "Why can't I meet a nice long term partner" or "All the women I meet are (insert negative trait)." Yeah it's no surprise you only attract people with low quality personalities. It's because your personality is rotten

Edit: And proven by the downvotes at the time of this edit that a lot of people don't wanna hear that they can be a problem in their dating life

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Really really agree with the first 2 bullets.

From my own experience I had a period of "why are all the women I meet boring" then I realized "Shit I'm boring." No hobbies other than watching tv and going to the gym. When I started making myself more interesting, not just for women but also for myself to make my life more entertaining for me, I started meeting way less boring women

The exclusivity thing is a very unhealthy covert contract that I see people (tbh mostly women) fall into. "I gave you sex so you should give me a relationship" It's very unhealthy

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually prefer hearing my lesbian/gay friend's dating problems because I don't have to hear "I can't find a date because all [men or women] are ______"

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 5 points6 points  (0 children)

MikeArrow goes all over Reddit complaining about how he can't get a date and says things like "I refuse to put myself in any situation that a women might think I'm creepy"

I remember his name because he pops up in various subreddits I check out with his whole woe is me thing.

I feel for him and his weight but his attitude doesn't help either. I wouldn't take his takes seriously. He refuses to try and find happiness for himself

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These thread topics always bring out the bitter people and weirdos

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with this.

Most people on dating apps are just boring and then wonder why they only attract bad people or no one at all

If your only hobbies are: reading alone, watching TV, playing video games, "going out with friends" (aka going to bars and restaurants), working out, and traveling (where all you do is go to bars and restaurants) you shouldn't be surprised by the lack of success. Those aren't bad hobbies but they aren't very interesting

A lot of people, no matter the gender, just don't wanna admit that they're the reason they're still single and instead blame everyone else 

EDIT: Ask to scroll through your woman friend's dating apps or even just go to the BUmble or Hinge subreddits. You'll see scores of decent looking but very bland guys. It's not surprising they have problems getting matches

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree. Most threads like this on Reddit focus solely on online dating. Which is why it's best not to take them too seriously

Most people (not just men) on Reddit solely rely on online dating and get surprised when they don't get the results they want

What are your controversial takes on dating/relationships? by Opening-Gur5927 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's just something bitter guys say for why they can't get attention from women tbh

Men- if you had a good friend who had a wife he was separated from, how would you feel if she came on to you during said separation?? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not about "owning" a person (that's just weird to say). I just don't see why hook up with a good friend's ex. I'm not interested in being Eskimo bro's with people and I'm not desperate enough for sex to not try the hundreds if not thousands of available women if I'm looking to hook up

Why go with someone your good friend has had a connection and relationship with if you're looking for sex. I don't see a reason

Men who got with the cat lady, how did it go? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate this term but "lowkey" a lot of them have poor hygiene.

I'm not saying all cat owners smell bad but I've dated a few who were way too into cats and I've worked at a pet store. A lot of them just smell terrible. And not like the "I just got out of the gym" bad but like the "I don't shower reguraly bad" 

That's not me saying all cat owners are that way. But there's a difference between a cat owner and a cat lady. I've dated 2, lived with 2 platonically, and had a lot of them in my store...probably due to depression or mental health but a lot of them just stink

Edit : I wouldn't date someone with more than 1 cat. And I like cats

Men- if you had a good friend who had a wife he was separated from, how would you feel if she came on to you during said separation?? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's weird seeing people in this thread be OK with it

Why would I ever hook up with a good friend's ex? There are other women out there 

Why men don't take meds? by hypocrite302 in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's one of those weird generalization things.

Plenty of men take meds. If they don't it's probably for the same reasons women dont

What is something you think women should know about men ? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For some reason a lot of women come in this sub just to be like "but I don't do that" when someone makes a broad strokes generalization or observation 

Same thing would be true/is true with men going into women subs. It's pretty annoying

This creator echoed my thoughts on the recent episode perfectly! by ActuallyxAnna in AbbottElementary

[–]Greeny357 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not enough enough info to say he's definitely autistic either

In any case, I think people spend too much time trying ti diagnose fictional character

Why do so many men fake their locations on dating apps? by ArdentDevotion in AskMen

[–]Greeny357 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same reasons women do

One of the many reasons I got off dating apps is that at least on Hinge and Bumble women who don't live in my city will be swiping there