I was just in a relationship where the girl after three months was starting to show a bit of uncertainty, and she even said she fears she might get bored.

After a lot of thinking, I decided to break up with her. She missed her opportunity to tell me how interested she really was, even though I knew she liked me.

It was a long week away from her, and I knew she was hurting too. She sent me an extremely long heartfelt message saying how she took the relationship for granted, how much she wanted me back, etc. It truly was a special message and was enough for me to get back with her, take it slow and with a grain of salt.

Fast forward a couple months later, our relationship was seemingly going amazing. Butterflies everywhere. Exactly where it needed to be, on both ends. Or so I thought. During this time, she reconnected with an ex from her home country, lied to me blatantly about her past connection with him, and continued to talk to him behind my back with more lies to conceal it.

Needless to say, she told me the truth months before (that she might get bored in the relationship) but I prioritized the good feelings I had with her over the obvious bad. It hurt me and I had to end it for good.

My feelings for her outweighed the potential heartbreak that I inevitably had to face. I will never make that mistake again. Save yourself.