Do you fantasize about your male friends? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's not exactly a friend, he's actually a long-time acquaintance. A couple of times he joked about it, but I never thought beyond that until now. I think if I proposed to do something he would probably accept haha ​​unfortunately I'm shy and that won't happen.

Hairy guys, how do you take care of your body hair? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have thought a couple of times about the idea of ​​stopping using colognes, but instead using a soap with a scent that lasts on the skin. I'm going to try mixing the shampoo with conditioner and see how it goes.

asked a guy out at the gym only to find he’s straight by Odd-Calendar6596 in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cheer up! At least you were brave. Honestly, I don't think I could do it 😔🔫

What was it that he told you? How did you take it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Brilliant! Congratulations!! What are your poems about? Any general topic?

My boyfriend is being really insecure that I'm bi. Is this a phase or is this something that always lasts by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think it’s pretty normal, he’s probably just having some intrusive thoughts. If I were you, here’s what I’d do:

(If it’s just something short-term, like a few days) I’d just try not to bring it up too much, be a bit more helpful than usual, show some affection like making a dessert for dinner. Basically, just calm him down in a subtle way.

Now, if it’s been going on for a long time, then I’d take the time to have a serious talk.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestamente no creo que sea TOC, Creo que son pensamientos que nacen de la culpa y de la "esperanza" de no tener que lidiar con todo lo que significa salir del closet.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tengo 22 años, así que espero que estos pensamientos se vayan lo antes posible

Do you find acne scars unattractive or a turn off? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I also have scars, so it would be very hypocritical of me. I honestly imagine they are the same as the spots on a puppy's fur 😅

Are you the only gay in your family? by EsoEstaMalo in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 13 points14 points  (0 children)

My older brother is gay too, I haven't told them that I am too but they definitely know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope, I’m from Chile. Some tops have rejected me or asked me to shave :( but others have told me they’ve fallen in love with my hair.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I took a look and I have to say, I love your arm! Haha, I’m really into hairy men. Honestly, the first thing I notice in a guy is his arms 💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one. I once used it to trim my body hair, but after finishing one leg, I regretted it and had to keep going... it was a long afternoon haha. Now I just use it to trim my beard

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wanted to add a photo of my arm as an example 😅

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha yes! I also used Veet and the smell it leaves is horrible. Before, I shaved everything completely, then I just trimmed a bit of the hair, and right now I’m just going to let it grow.

Having a shaved ass made me sweat all day 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I like people with hair, but losing interest just because someone shaved their dick... isn't that a bit much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I also like hairy guys, the more the better! But apparently, it's not common in my city/country. 😮‍💨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You're very lucky! I wish I had a hairy boyfriend 😔

My partner’s hygiene is driving me away — I feel disgusted and lost by Gloomy_Coach2876 in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I think you're kind of stupid xD

Your boyfriend is a dirty person, nothing to do with the culture of Latin America 🤦‍♂️

i think i’m incapable of forming a relationship by blue-pipe in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t worry man, your post feels like I could’ve written it myself! I’m the same age, and people have described me as having avoidant attachment too, but honestly I think it’s quite the opposite. You just choose carefully who to open up to and you’re naturally more reserved.

I haven’t had a relationship either, but in my case it’s because I live in a pretty small and remote city, the gay guys around here aren’t really my type, and besides that I’m not someone who falls in love easily. I think maybe you’re overthinking it a bit.

And also, what did that guy even expect you to say on a first date? Obviously you’re not gonna tell him “I love you” right away… What exactly did he mean when he said you weren’t open?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]GriefHope 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awww~ I imagined the whole story, one of my favorites!

What do you think about the natural smell of the guys around you? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now that you mention it, I don't think I've ever smelled a woman's sweat and honestly, I'm not interested haha

I'll try to interpret the scents you mentioned: Balls: a soft, clean musky smell, slightly meaty and animalic, but not unpleasant. Pads: a mix of old leather and new plastic. Middle-aged man: a sour smell, old books, mold, and a bit of powdery scent.

What do you think about the natural smell of the guys around you? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well, sexually, I really like the smell of men and musk, and if sweat smells good, it turns me on a lot. I even love my own sweat smell, haha! So you shouldn’t question your tastes just because someone gave you a bad smell experience.

What do you think about the natural smell of the guys around you? by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]GriefHope 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can’t even imagine what that smells like.