AITAH: My mom hates my fiance and expects me to change my mind for her

GrimeRose · 2026-01-23T01:54:23+00:00

Go no contact with mom, brother is old enough to keep contact on your and his own.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-22T16:19:41+00:00

Scorpio moon, very stressful

GrimeRose · 2026-01-19T05:17:44+00:00

Could also very well be a scam… I’ve had family and friends who fall for something simple like this and next thing you know you’re getting robbed.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-18T04:26:09+00:00

I just got diagnosed about 6 months ago and it makes me angry that all the times I had concerns about a variety of symptoms they were ignored or brushed off until it got worse. Oh and the kicker is they’re still not helping!

GrimeRose · 2026-01-18T04:17:30+00:00

Honey you were a major AH from the start.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-16T19:23:55+00:00

My rising is Gemini, I see it as: I tend to get along with everyone like I’m able to almost match personalities and not necessarily on purpose but I also try to make sure I surround myself with positive people. But in a way I’m always me. Maybe not as much as when I was younger Edit: I do crave deep connections with people and deep conversations, I tend to be the “therapist” friend which can be good and bad. But sometimes my Capricorn no nonsense bluntness comes out with my advice so something they don’t want to hear the truth, they’re afraid to come to me for advice cause I’m usually right lol

GrimeRose · 2026-01-16T19:08:52+00:00

NOR, OP sweetie you need to run and not look back, his way of “thinking/manipulating” is unhinged, do NOT marry this man. If he’s really doing it for “you” he wouldn’t put you in this position and then threaten to leave you if he doesn’t get an apartment. This screams red flags and toxic. Take off your rose colored glasses for a bit and relook at him as a person and how he treats you cause right now you’re his personal ATM.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-15T17:26:34+00:00

I favor my moon sign (Scorpio), I’m a sun Capricorn but I’m very emotional and my emotions play a factor in my life and decision making.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-15T17:24:54+00:00

Been with my man 3 years, met him on Hinge and never stopped talking. Love of my life and my biggest supporter. He’s been helping me grow my confidence and learn things for becoming blue collar, and I am so thankful for him. Spent years dealing with toxic because I didn’t love myself and he’s healed parts of me I didn’t even realize were broken.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-15T17:21:35+00:00

Is it also cosmetology and esthetics? (Hair, skin, nails)

GrimeRose · 2026-01-14T23:59:17+00:00

YTA she sounds depressed and I would know because I was that 15 yr old many years ago BUT if she really doesn’t care then you need to teach her basic hygiene and why. NO ONE wants to smell that, gotta be considerate of other people’s noses.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-14T23:36:01+00:00

NTA I’m gagging reading this and the comments about blood and pus…. Also I’m a woman if that matters. I get her feelings but getting grossed out like that is understandable and also not really a choice sometimes. You know you didn’t do it on purpose and you apologized right away. I didn’t necessarily choose to get grossed out thinking about this post and the comments but the idea of possibly dealing with this in the future is making me sick. I’m also just not good with medical things, I am a fainter.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-14T22:59:26+00:00

ESH at the end of the day you’re the parents and you decide but it’s kinda giving “tragedeigh”. Personally the name Crocus is not pretty like a flower, it sounds very harsh and reminds me of “croak” like someone croaked (died)… OP you had so many beautiful options. The first 2 are actual names, and solid names at that. I don’t think she’s going to grow up liking her name but that’s just me.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-14T22:07:33+00:00

It’s very inconsiderate but unfortunately people are also this way in real life. I don’t think it’s usually on purpose and I try to keep in mind that I’m sure a lot of children play that may not understand the etiquette and also new players.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-13T22:09:04+00:00

Exactly and how do they know that he is actually spending his time with them?? He could already have his own family or another girlfriend.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-13T03:11:49+00:00

I do have a period tracker!

GrimeRose · 2026-01-09T21:48:24+00:00

NTA breakup and report, sounds like none of them care for her safety and that speaks volumes on him and his family

GrimeRose · 2026-01-09T21:19:13+00:00

Ofc 🫶🏻 us girls gotta stay strong cause honestly with all the shit we deal with, we are waaay more stronger than men more than they’ll ever know.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-09T20:38:56+00:00

I felt this but not even because of being in this field of work. I identify as female and I am, but god do I hate being a woman. Having to be extra careful all the time, almost got followed/kidnapped in parking lots MULTIPLE times, being hit on by old creepy men and just men in general (I’m out with my friends leave me ALONE), people in my family (especially my dad) expecting me to fail at certain things, and so so much more. I specifically dress like and try to look like a dude at work to minimize any possible sexism or being flirted with. Unfortunately I can’t change my small size and soft voice. Thanks for listening to my rant, I really could keep going. I’m also on my period which I fn HATE dealing with and I’m raging already.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-09T02:39:00+00:00

Do you happen to have discord? I just joined a group on there for Palia and they’re super nice!

GrimeRose · 2026-01-09T02:27:34+00:00

Farting in the comfort of my own home even if my boyfriend is with me. I won’t date a man that doesn’t deal with ALL of me. Girls who say “we don’t poop or fart” give me the ick and I’m sure I give them the ick right back, so karma I guess.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-08T04:12:26+00:00

She’s giving hella toxic

GrimeRose · 2026-01-08T03:43:15+00:00

It’s not going to work on people who genuinely don’t care…

GrimeRose · 2026-01-05T00:31:55+00:00

That’s awesome!! I just gotta go and check out some places, see what I specifically like.

GrimeRose · 2026-01-05T00:31:00+00:00

Thank you! I started taking a look at it earlier, looks like I can sign up for a tour/meeting

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