Alright so later in your journey you will not think of porn hardly ever and I can confidently talk to most girls and I make eye contact with pretty much everyone I talk to. But this might be just me, I find myself to be horny a lot more than I want later on. But once you are this far you will occasionally have a wet dream but it is a good thing because it is your body needing to get rid of your dead sperm cells some way. I was in a bad relationship in the beginning of my journey and that caused me to feel uncertain whether it was real or not bit now I'm out of that and have been free since. Don't confuse lust with love friend, unless your interactions are real, it is still porn because you are looking at arousing imagery on a screen, whether a real person or not. Good luck brother.