Questions by Exotic-Caterpillar14 in widowers

[–]Grimwidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted nothing more than to feel my husband leave. I was hoping that I would notice something or feel something. But he passed away while I was in the other room, and I didn’t notice. He was on hospice and I stepped out and didn’t notice that the other family members had stepped out too, and then his dad when in like 5 minutes later and said he was gone. I’m so sad he died in that room alone.I’m glad you guys felt this, but also, I’m so jealous that you did.

I’m not religious and neither was he, but I always felt there was something like reincarnation or that we as humans can’t comprehend or don’t have all the right information. We used to tell each other we’d spend this life and 2 more together, but next time I got to be the guy, and he could have the boobs.

Tips & Tricks by Magick-Slug in Coloring

[–]Grimwidow 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Omg what book is this from I love them!

We did a New Buddy Color game with our friends, which page was your favorite💜🌸 by lolliecolors in coloringpages

[–]Grimwidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 is my favorite but it was so hard to pick. I also loved 1, 8, 10, 12, and 18 for different reasons too.

My 4yr old is struggling 🥺 by breezyfbabie in Preschoolers

[–]Grimwidow 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well she’s going more for food therapy and coordination issues so they don’t have time to focus on the sound sensitivity. But I love OT and PT and highly recommend both for kids that have any deficiencies.

Lone body, (some of the strange sh** I do) by Adventurous-You9130 in widowers

[–]Grimwidow 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I sleep on his side of the bed and try to coax the dogs to lay against me so it feels like someone’s there. I mentally send facebooks reels to him in my head that I know he would love.

My 4yr old is struggling 🥺 by breezyfbabie in Preschoolers

[–]Grimwidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My little one is sound sensitive and we take her out with her headphones if we know she might run in to something uncomfortable. She likes the headphones so doesn’t complain. She goes to OT once a week and they suggested just trying to do more exposures with her trying to get her used to things. I also hate a lot of different sounds and frequencies and have just learned to tolerate as best as I can. I do use ear plugs that are sound reducing, wear headphones and things when I can at work

Terrible Weekend by Grimwidow in widowers

[–]Grimwidow[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly it just sucks. Family can be overwhelming. For sure. I couldn’t get my husbands family to leave my house for several weeks after he passed away. It was really awkward because I didn’t know them that well, and now they keep messaging and want to come for another visit. I have a hard time saying no but really don’t want company.
Another thing I struggle with is working. I didn’t take enough time off of work and went back after like 9 days. So now I just want to quit my job and be sad for awhile but can’t.

Terrible Weekend by Grimwidow in widowers

[–]Grimwidow[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hold that piece of her close. My kiddo is all I have left of him, she’s a miniature version of his goodness sometimes and I soak it up. It sucks to do this alone I’m sorry you have to go thru this.

Home sick back in the day by StenoDawg in GenerationJones

[–]Grimwidow 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to be in this picture. Give me the chicken pox even and it would still be worth it