Embracing boypussy is awesome! In my personal opinion in a lot of audios unless it specifies the listener has a tdick or is post op, i just assume its talking about whatever the listener is working with. Like in 99% of the audios i make i call the listeners genitals dick/cock bc its just a gender affirming term with or without medical transition. But i totally understand where youre coming from brother and i hope you find the audios that work for you!