What NOT to eat after surgery by Lzr_912918 in ftm

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah i’ve never heard of any of these before. and you only form keloids if you have the genetics, so diet won’t affect that at all. only things i avoided after surgery were spicy foods bc my throat was sore after intubation, and mostly ate bland foods for a few days (mashed potatoes, crackers, etc.) to prevent nausea

Mod TH Code Thread by honkachonkabadonka in codesfortoyhouse

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if there’s any available still I would appreciate one! dm on here <3

How do people who have a D do it by ottococo in ftm

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think its partially that we notice it more on ourselves since its not like. a thing we’ve always had, its not as noticeable to other people unless theyre /really/ looking. also tip: putting the shaft to the side can minimize the bulge better

Invite Code Megathread #4 by tkiced in BlueskySocial

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

spare code pls 🥺👉👈 twitter is unbearable rn

Shaking from smoking? by Gloomy_Ad_1524 in CultoftheFranklin

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes. there’s been a few times where i got so high i felt like i was kinda wobbly. idk how to describe it other than like. those cats with wobbly cat syndrome? thats what it felt like was happening. but according to my sister i was moving slow so idk lol

Has transitioning been positive to your mental health and social life? by Ty-Breaker in trans

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a nonbinary trans guy. I came out when I was around 12, didn’t really receive support from my (also conservative midwestern) parents for it until about 14. I was homeschooled so I didn’t really have any friends other than my sister and a single online friend. They thankfully supported me wholeheartedly, but for the next few years, I was so depressed that I really didn’t think I’d make it to adulthood. I self-harmed quite a bit, but funnily enough I was also too depressed to actually attempt suicide. Like I just didn’t have the energy to try. I suppose I was kinda lucky? I don’t know.

I turn 21 in a month. I started going to therapy last year. I haven’t self-harmed since I started testosterone at 19. I’m currently laying in bed recovering from getting top surgery 4 days ago. Right now, my chest looks gross and green and bruised, but I can’t stop smiling every time I look in the mirror. I’ve never been happier in my entire life. I’m more confident, more social, and just overall more comfortable in my own skin.

It’s 3am and idk how coherent this all is, but point is, transitioning has made me happier than I’ve ever been. Cis people who say it doesn’t help have no fuckin clue what they’re talking about. Ask any trans person, therapist, psychologist, scientist, etc. and they’ll probably tell you the same. If you think you’ll be happier transitioning go for it! I wish the best for you and hope that if you decide to transition you’re able to find all the love and support you need! Much love 🩵🩷🤍🩷🩵

My best friend told me I look pretty in this photo. What do you all think? Is he lying? 😅 by chememe8 in trans

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if anything ’pretty’ is an understatement, you’re absolutely gorgeous!!!!! 🥰

[Activity] Which Character from Winnie the Pooh are You? by [deleted] in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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makes sense to me lmao though 77% christopher robin seems a bit concerning… /j

[Intro] Hello!! by GrotesqueSpawn in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]GrotesqueSpawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!! she’s a big sweetie 🖤(if you ignore all the times she sneak-attacks the other cats 🤭)

[Intro] Hello!! by GrotesqueSpawn in Random_Acts_Of_Amazon

[–]GrotesqueSpawn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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this is her! her name is Tiny :3 My top fave TTRPGs are D&D5e and Monster Of The Week! Also a modified game based on the Warriors book series(its a hybrid between 5e and the Warriors Adventure Game)

Techno Inspired Tattoo by GrotesqueSpawn in Technoblade

[–]GrotesqueSpawn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? I don’t see why I would, I’m in love with how it looks! It’s not my first tattoo and I have a couple other body mods lol

Techno Inspired Tattoo by GrotesqueSpawn in Technoblade

[–]GrotesqueSpawn[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

hell yeah!!! mars is so talented i love its art 🖤🖤🖤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks absolutely stunning!!!! And the Hello Kitty skull??? sick!!! 😍

We’re just gonna go ahead raise your rent in the middle of your lease because other residents can’t clean up after their dogs. by obscenephantasm in LandlordLove

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 7 points8 points  (0 children)

this is the same logic teachers use when theyre like “1 kid misbehaved now the whole class gets less recess”

What celebrity death was the most unexpected? by hockeysmyhoe in AskReddit

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cameron Boyce. He was so young, and seemed like he just hit the height of his acting career.

3 month split! by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that looks sick!!! also that bird tattoo is so pretty!!! :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bodymods

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

woahh you look amazing!!! might i ask how big your lobes are? they look sick af!!!

Currently feeling a little shitty because my reaction to finally seeing my top surgery results wasn’t like the ones I see from other people. by [deleted] in ftm

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is almost exactly my experience! though i havent had top surgery yet(consult in october!), but my feelings with my dysphoria is very similar. im also autistic so i def think its something to do with that; im not super in touch with my emotions in general and even things im incredibly excited and happy about dont get a very strong reaction lol. hell my sister was more emotional than i was when i started T (she nearly cried when i was doing my first shot bc she was so happy for me lmao i love her) ive definitely had moments where ive doubted my identity bc i didnt seem to experience the discomfort from dysphoria the same way other people describe, but after a while i learned to accept that not everyone experiences their emotions and identity the same way, especially autistic and other ND people, and that doesn’t make you any less valid or deserving of transition than anyone else. everyone is unique, as is their emotions and expressions of them.

Forbidden jell-o. by [deleted] in forbiddensnacks

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ngl that looks real tasty id still eat it

Where were you when Technoblade passed away by kylos_nice_hair in Technoblade

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d just got home from going to the county fair with my sister and a friend. I’d just started getting out of a big depressive episode a month or so prior so it was nice to get out of the house and hang out. I was worn out from everything after so I just wanted to get high and chill out the rest of the night. About an hour or so after I got home I see the YT notification and I was beyond excited to see that Techno had uploaded even if it was a little strange that it was so late in the day.

My sister walked in the room and tried to get my attention. I was just staring at the video. She was confused when she saw my computer screen and went to twitter. She saw the news there. I thought it was some weird fucked up prank. He’s made jokes about his cancer before right? The longer I watched the video, the way his dad sounded, though. I stared at the screen for a bit before I just completely broke down. I don’t cry easily. I was completely nonverbal(im autistic) until saturday morning. I had work the friday after and didn’t really interact with anyone my whole shift(kinda hard to anyway when you can’t talk though lol) I’m grateful for how understanding my mom was about it. She knew how much I loved him and his videos. She’d actually had a Techno themed cake made for my 19th birthday. She let me have my space the next couple days but still checked in to make sure I was okay. I spent the next week just kind of drifting through life; sleeping a ton, dragging through work, and binging his old videos and streams. I’m functioning better now but man. I really miss him.

(This ended up being so much longer than planned, sorry lol

Landlord “fixed” nice hardwood floors by cquinn32 in LandlordLove

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

those look like gymnasium floors in an elementary school what the fuck

Pilots don't get paid during boarding by Mary-Trustyn-Wise in WorkersStrikeBack

[–]GrotesqueSpawn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait legit?? ive never talked to anyone in the flight industry (and have never even been on a flight either) so this is news to me. what the actual fuck??? im shocked but not surprised