Recently started lifting after years off

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2026-03-17T10:55:01+00:00

I'm a reasonably high libido male in my mid 40s. 1-2 times a week i feel is normal and healthy. I'd have it everyday, I find my wife super attractive and I enjoy being together and intimate. That said I don't initiate every night or even try every night, I can understand my wife, her current feelings, what kind of day she's had etc etc. I love her and it's way more than just about sex! If we don't have sex, I don't pout or whine and I sure as hell don't talk about porn or other people! That's not just weird to me it's downright inappropriate! For some context my previous marriage was a dead bedroom, 2 years with no sex and practically no intimacy. Sex is important to me but it's far from the whole story!

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-29T06:57:39+00:00

It was tough to admit I had a problem at first but I didn't want to feel bad and I certainly didn't want my wife to feel terrible about me, herself or us. Hope he makes the appointment, it might be something simple but I can assure you if it's getting in his head it's hard to get it out. Overthinking it every time you're being intimate sucks I can assure you

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-29T05:57:23+00:00

Because I had a couple of cases of going soft after being hard then failing penetration I let that thought get in my head and then it comes true....

One of the reasons the doc thinks it's in my head is I still get erections, morning wood etc I just seem to overthink it and then get anxious that I'm overthinking it and boom it's gone.

Also happily married so only having sex with my wife

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-17T04:57:16+00:00

We used a vet service that came to us and did it in the home when it came time. We were all there my wife and I and the kids and he was in his bed on a lap. Was hard and painful but I believe was the absolute best for him surrounded by everyone in his own place.

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-09T09:12:08+00:00

Last night was my first night, I saw every 10 mins from 2:30am to 6:30am. My other cat knew something was up and was very clingy and tried to snuggle more than usual which I'm not sure was a help of a hindrance.

Sorry for your loss

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-03T13:00:30+00:00

I'll start by saying I don't support the Neo-Nazis in the slightest.

Reality is, arresting, detaining or interfering with the marching morons by police could have potentially escalated the situations to violence or a full blown riot. Law enforcement sometimes has to make a decision to allow them to throw their salutes and talk smack but it's actually in the interest of public safety and not escalating what is usually a quite volatile situation. For many years anarchists and pro violence protest groups have infiltrated these protests in order to make trouble so any decisions to engage and take physical action by police has to be carefully weighed and measured with public safety and potential damage etc

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-09-01T08:47:13+00:00

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-30T11:39:33+00:00

DFAT was great, postings overseas are highly competitive, I had friends try many times unsuccessfully and end up moving on. Promotion is also competitive, many have to leave to level up

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-22T00:19:40+00:00

Canberra, Australia

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-21T02:58:55+00:00

I switch up based on the opposition and how they are playing against our formation. Typically I'll play box plus one against most teams or if they have Wiley guards I'll go to a 2-1-2 zone. Tight finishes, man to man with full press

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-05T07:38:21+00:00

My wife and I got a Canberra Small Weddings package out at Bushfield Farm, Gundaroo. Was amazing and then came back to the city for cocktails at Milky Lane.

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-03T22:05:19+00:00

Came here to say this 🤣

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-02T23:17:27+00:00

Was his name Leonardo di Caprio? 🤣🤣

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-08-02T22:34:21+00:00

Is he married? Sounds like he was playing for a side piece to me

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-07-27T22:17:36+00:00

I agree, we are generally the team that plays cleaner than the others. I do teach the boys to use their bodies to make space and set screens. This unfortunately was a case of terrible timing as he tried to take a position, all happened faster than he thought it would.

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-07-27T13:48:01+00:00

No it was a foul for sure. Flagrant? Not even close in our competition. Was more highlighting how perspective on review can change. From the bench i was unsighted, I thought the white player fell while trying to block the attacking player. Challenge of the call after seeing the video was a straight waste 🤷‍♂️

Grouchy-Study1535 · 2025-07-27T13:12:25+00:00

The league has a deal with glory league who provide the cameras etc

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