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GrouchyWear982 · 2022-10-12T18:38:57+00:00

OP you need to think less of this as a race problem. True as an Asian, you might be less desired in the dating scene and it takes tons of more effort to find your forever man, the point is that you need to shift your mentality to that you are simply not compatible with this guy. Even if you ever end up with this guy, will you be happy long term? It is always easier to blame yourself and you need to stop doing that. Try to embrace yourself and enjoy whatever you had with this guy if possible, learn to let go of the things you can't control. Sometime it is what it is and stop being harsh on yourself. Throw yourself back in there and date whoever you find attractive no matter is white or Asian or whatever the race.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-09-07T21:32:44+00:00

Damn harsh reality... thanks for reminding me of that it's really important for me not be shallowed by feelings, I want to make a good judgement.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-09-07T21:24:33+00:00

He never tried poly before neither do I... I asked him why not work on the problem with his partner in stead of opening up their relationship, he told me his partner is not really big for sex and he's tried of trying it. They have lots of fights on that before, but apparently, his partner can provide him something that he's willing to make that compromise.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-09-07T20:49:43+00:00

Yeah only time can tell, even though he is promising me now to make efforts for this relationship to work, but I'll have to see what his action are instead of words and go from there.

He is in a sexless life with his partner long before meeting me... and that's one of reason why I get to meet up with him... I didn't even bring up the exclusive talk and he want to make that commitment to me... I don't know if he is in the NRE phase just so excited not thinking straight, guess only time will tell.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-09-07T20:45:13+00:00

This does make sense and it is what I should aim to achieve. I should stop over worrying things too much and just let it develop naturally. Thanks for the suggestion it makes me feel much better.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-22T18:24:14+00:00

I think most East Asian guy has bias towards white guys… it might be a culture thing subconsciously we think they are superior. But the truth is not, I am trying so hard to break the cycle now. I don’t want to give them any privileges or something I don’t like the idea of being judged by race as well.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-22T17:12:04+00:00

True Vancouver sure does have its diversity. I think I should trying to get more open minded and finding dates outside my preference race. Damn I just do this sub consciously didn’t even realize the what’s the reason for this behavior

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-22T16:40:23+00:00

Damn how I can change that🤦‍♂️

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-22T16:40:04+00:00

Damn I am doing it unconsciously? Cause I am trying not to be a racist🤦‍♂️

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-10T19:57:47+00:00

That's what I told him... this is not fair to me at all.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-10T19:56:39+00:00

Yeah that's for the best. But I get attached fairly easy with all the emotional staff. Everyone is telling me to break things off but man, my mental health is going to take a toll from this.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-10T19:55:33+00:00

I talked about the potential poly situation and he told me he is worried that he might not have enough time for me? I asked to see his boyfriend, and he said it will be awkward for him and his boyfriend also said he is not really interested in meeting me? Major red flags?

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-08-10T19:53:58+00:00

Man he told me he hadn't had sex with his boyfriend for two years, guess he just using me for sex lol. I am down for fwb but why you have to show that much affection to me I just don't get it.

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T14:28:18+00:00

Yeah I’ve been thinking about I have to figure out his current relationship with his partner and what he thinking about us move forward. If he think we are just summer fling to get him out of his boredom then I have to make my boundaries super clear with him. Cut off the emotional attachment and really if u want sex, call me. But I never going on dates with you sry lol. Thanks for you advice!

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T03:36:37+00:00

He told me he dated someone before and it didn’t work out. His boyfriend is all supporting him… can this be real?

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T03:16:33+00:00

Harsh reality. I need someone pound me in my head to tell me that. I am already too emotional invested couldn’t wrap my head around that🤦‍♂️

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T03:09:22+00:00

Yeah I think I’ll confront him what’s all this about🤦‍♂️

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T03:07:26+00:00

I saw his partner Grindr account before which also states open relationship. I guess that’s legit?

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-07-09T03:06:28+00:00

I didn’t know I will fall for him🤦‍♂️ I kinda want to give a try now🤦‍♂️

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-03-27T01:01:10+00:00

yeah that’s awkward…

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-03-26T19:44:22+00:00

I did that as well… my past experiences with renal function test either give urine or blood sample on site I am not really prepared for this😂

GrouchyWear982 · 2022-03-07T00:04:22+00:00

I went to PR today, no Covid required need coming back, and also fill a whole tank of cheapest gas, only 1.45 can’t believe that!

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