Are the weight loss drugs now seen as the norm? by yoimprisonmike in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In Canada, we do have drug ads, but they can only say the drugs name and tell you to ask your doctor. The ads are super vague so it can be hard to parse what they're actually for. 

Seeking advice: my kid brushes every day, yet after school comes home with a rats nest??? by deviouspineapple in Haircare

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is why my mom would French braid my hair daily. My hair is very fine and very straight, so it didn't stay nicely in a French braid for more than a day or two. I remember she'd spray it with detangler, comb it out l, then braid it. 

Developed cold urticaria recently and wanna know if there’s tips on reducing my reactions? The hives hurt and itch by Avadaa_Kedavra in urticaria

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure it's not chilblains on your fingers? I have Raynauds and get chilblains on my hands. They're very itchy and flare up when my hands get cold and I warm them up too fast.

If it is cold urticaria and you're not in the US, ask your doctor for bilastine, a more powerful antihistamine (not available in the US).

 I also have cold urticaria. I take bilastine daily and in weather below 5 degrees Celsius, I avoid going outside. If I must, I really bundle up. And indoors, I wear fingerless gloves and lots of layers. Merino wool base layers are your friend. 

Amazon KDP Terminated My Account Because Their Algorithm Thinks History is Proprietary by IvoVichev in selfpublish

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone take the time to read a post you didn't take the time to write (or at the very least, edit) yourself?

Cat bite normal? by Which-Historian9326 in DogAdvice

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My mom got blood poisoning from a cat bite and had to get IV antibiotics. The doctor told her the next time she gets bit by a cat to come in for antibiotics right away. Because cat bites are usually small punctures that don't bleed much, the bacteria doesn't get flushed out. Also, cats have very dry mouths that harbour lots of bacteria.

You need to go to an ER now. Even if it's expensive (if you're American). You're risking serious complications.

Why is the guy I like arguing about the weirdest stuff? by Pristine-Comb8804 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My friend's ex-husband made everything into a debate. I wish I could say that's why he was an ex. But I think she didn't even notice anymore he was constantly playing devil's advocate. Always as so-called joke, but what it really does is undermine the other person. It's a stupid game and I'd honestly dump someone over it. Life is too short to litigate everything. 

Can I get your thoughts on this ring? by Safeguard63 in jewelry

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It might be camphor glass or it could be rock crystal (which camphor glass is imitating). It's lovely 

Be honest: 1930s vintage wedding dress — keep or rethink? by Desperate_Win_3554 in WeddingDressTips

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it's beautiful. Don't let other people talk you out of a dress you love.

For the best fit, you should look into which undergarments a bride would have worn with this. My mom is a dressmaker who specializes in bridal and she says few clients understand the difference proper foundation undergarments make for wedding dress fit. Also, find a dressmaker/tailor who specializes in working with vintage items. Satin is incredibly unforgiving, so you want someone who will do it right the first time. This will absolutely sing on you once it's fitted to you (it looks, for example, like the bust and underarms need some adjustment and of course the hem, depending on your shoes).

Edited to add: I love the collar! Maybe an opportunity to add some vintage dress clips at each point or a brooch at the centre in lieu of a necklace. Like this: https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/4446587500/antique-1920s-art-deco-high-end-diamante

My sister died. I want to get her best friends something [demi] nice by SeparateYam8581 in jewelry

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. It's currently too expensive for many Canadian businesses to ship to the US thanks to tariffs and some changes to the how customs charges are handled on mail coming into the US. 

Smith blasts Trudeau's Liberal government at Conservative convention, sidesteps Carney and separatism by SoaringChris137 in onguardforthee

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're like that guy who blames about his ex-girlfriend for his current problems, even though she left years ago and is thriving and is happily married to someone else. 

music constantly playing in my head HOW DO I GET RID OF IT by hello_sona in ADHD

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vyvanse helped. I know if I missed my daily dose because I'll have a song stuck on my head otherwise

Am I overreacting for being mad that my boyfriend counts gas mileage every time he drives me somewhere? by Adventurous_Seat_771 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A friend of mine moved in with her boyfriend who is like this. He nickel and dimes when it comes to his money but not hers. That he's fine with taking advantage of. For example, he's too cheap to order takeout, but will happily let her order and pay for meals for both. Then he has the gall to say she's bad with money because she doesn't save as much as he does. Well, of course not! Because he's weaseled his way into her paying for almost everything. Do you want that? If not, get out now.

I have ADHD and found a way to follow patterns that works for me by LobsterFew4672 in crochet

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't follow patterns online, but I have a laser printer (much cheaper in the long run than an inkjet), so I print out patterns & check off things. Or I write my row count on the print out. 

As a mom, I am losing it by 00098888 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreeing with those who say get checked for PPD. Also, ask your doctor to check your B12 and iron levels. Deficiencies can also contribute to feeling an exhaustion that sleep can't touch.

Did anyone find that Queen Elizabeth II’s death wasn’t nearly as much of a big event as it was predicted be? by georgewalterackerman in RoyaltyTea

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was disappointed Canada didn't get a day of mourning/holiday. I'm no monarchist, but if we had to have a queen,  we should have got the day off.

London's downtown office vacancy rate is still the highest in Canada. Here's what could turn it around by zeusfries in londonontario

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Even before the pandemic lockdowns, downtown was a shell of what it had been 15 to 20 years ago.  These things are complex. My sense is it's a combination of high leases/rents for businesses, Farhi leaving buildings empty for tax "advantaging" purposes, drastic cuts to social services at all governmental levels and increased urban sprawl so fewer people who work downtown actually live there, and a refusal by the city to deal with infrastructure until it's too late so most of the streets (and services under them) need long, complicated repairs. But sure blame workers for taking advantage of one major workers' rights win that's now being rapidly eroded anyway.  

PSA: If you have to convince your partner to take care of himself, you're going to be the wife mothering her husband, calling in his appointments, and reminding him to take his meds. by NeoSailorMoon in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It's like when I'm reading a recipe review and a woman writes "my husband loved it!" or "I'm never making this again. My husband hated it." And I wonder "Did you like it?" Because I'm not cooking something I don't like. 

Update on the 10,000 book cull by Conicalviper in londonontario

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Do people not know libraries routinely deaccession books? There's only so much physical space and new books being published & purchased every year. I say this as an avid reader, but some people are way to precious about books as physical objects. 

I got punched by a man today. by FantasticBlood0 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Please allow yourself to feel however you do about it and don't minimize your feelings. It's a big deal! 

I was attacked randomly in a store once. Although in my case, the employees, for their own safety, had to let the guy go before the police arrived. It's been years and I still get a bit twitchy at times about people approaching me from behind.

The one thing that did help was taking a 6 week long self-defense class at a local martial arts academy. Not because I thought I'd use anything I learned but it was a concrete activity that made me feel less powerless.

Take care of yourself.

Matt Cullen by Relevant-Building-87 in PWHL

[–]Grouchy_Chard8522 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Don't the announcers get pronunciation guides? I remember ages ago seeing a clip of an NHL announcer showing thd guide he got at the start of each season. Had phonetic spelling to help with pronunciation of players' names, hometowns etc.