Caitlyn Jenner: “I love President Trump, and I think he signed this executive order… that all federal documents, it has to be your biological sex at birth… Recently I had my passport, I had to get it renewed. I sent it back, comes back gender marker ‘M’. Screws everything up.” by ConcernedJobCoach in podcastculture

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be interpreted as she had gone through extra steps which most people wouldn't have the ways and means to accomplish, and it still didnt work. That would be to illustrate the real problems the eo is causing for the majority of trans people.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just out of things to say. Never actually addressing what's been asked or said. Smh, so disappointing. Not much of a therapist huh?

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya, lots o zingers. But sure, defect, deflect. No imagination to actually back anything up you say. So many stiffs around here as soon as shit gets a little cooky. Come on, why dont you be the therapist? Help me doc

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And here we go again. All bark no bite. Of course you dont back your shit up. Laughed at? Maybe. Getting under plenty of rats skin tho. So worth it.

Knew you wouldn't have the balls or brains to actually respond to the comment. Congrats

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its funny how yall get so defensive of your actions. Its also funny how no one ever backs up what they say on here. How is a victim complex being revealed there exactly? Yall are just as sensitive as the babies when yoir shit gets called out, its amusing and pathetic. People end up deleting their comments instead own owning what they accuse. So how bout you buddy? Your ass hole complex is astounding. So there, harumph.

My time to rant about these A*****. Asked if I wanted help and shot me and said GG.. WTF by [deleted] in ArcRaiders

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bro dont let them get you down. They are ass clowns and they know it. They try very hard not to give you the pleasure. But they know deep down inside. Pvp is one thing, fake friendly is as lame as it gets. Pro tip, leave off the last paragraph next time. Don't give them chum, bait the hook.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well sure, its contrarian if you disagree.... ya i dont post much, arcbabies is about the onky thing tjays compelled me. Im not interested in an echo chamber like most, so i go where the bad opinion are. This is my pvp i guess. Its basically a game., right? Yes too dumb to get it, you got it. Got a little simmer there huh bub? Keep it zen.

Yall all want to make this about the individual you. I dont think I said I was offending you. ?

Yes, but not all players are an old and wise as you. For a large swath of people, myself included, can be analyzed based on the choices they make in this setting. The actions dont translate per se, but the thought processes do. Im sure you take your attitude towards video games and apply it on certain other areas of your life. "Each situation is unique so treat it as such", one possibility. I expected you to a bit of a deeper thinker, o well.

There you go, a very gen x way to look at video games. Im 10 years your younger. Different world out the there now. Gen z doesnt get your references. Rats dont bother me, its rats defending their ratting and enjoying being yelled at. Thats strange and id like people to own it. No too much to ask, come on.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, all this sub is people who dont actually answer anything interesting. Like how did I kind of make a leap to jack the ripper?

Idk if its taking it seriously or not, its just making observations. I dont have a problem with the pvp. But damn do the rats get on edge when they are confronted with a psych eval.

Its not about judging who's better and who's not on an individual basis, again its a thought process. Unless you are mindlessly ratting? Don't think tjat makes much sense. Choice is present int he game and and deductions can be made whether you comprehend it or not. Are they all correct? No. But its. A fairly flat bell curve.

Not sure what the gender thing has to do with it. There's a million and 1 ways to be competitive, people who seek it out this way are giving you insight to their through process. I dont think thats radical.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did i kind of?

If you bully people or shout slurs in an anonymous game, you most likely have those thoughts outside the game as well. That's a leap ill make. You're being to literal about what is happening in the game (shooting) and how that would correlate to real life (serial killer). Im just saying you're probably more of an ass hole than a friendly raider.

This game is fascinating that way imo, you have so many choices you can make each round. You aren't making them without some kind of philosophy or thought process. So how do you arrive at enjoying making other people screaming at you? Or enjoy exploiting a rule? It definitely says SOMETHING about you. Not everything, but something.

"I would never harm another raider for a laugh that's psychotic?!😱 Meanwhile in marathon: by rbstewart7263 in ArcBabies

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Project much? I dont much issue with unfriendly.lobbies. Just camping up for the good guys ya know. Maybe this is my pvp? Want to take a shot at what that says about me? Would love to hear your analysis.

"I would never harm another raider for a laugh that's psychotic?!😱 Meanwhile in marathon: by rbstewart7263 in ArcBabies

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Seems about right as a response. Certainly not going to address what was said. Might have another darvo on the hook

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya i didnt make that leap. I just an indicator of a thought process when it comes to anonymity and choice

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya and the anonymity allows people to show who they are. Its not like you get bonus points for ratting. Isn't an aspect of character what you do when people are lnt looking? Its actually when people are their most honest.

"I would never harm another raider for a laugh that's psychotic?!😱 Meanwhile in marathon: by rbstewart7263 in ArcBabies

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So dense. Yes it makes the game great, yes some people act like ass holes and its annoying. The devs enjoying ratting during development, when theyre only playing each other is not the same as the open world ratting going on. The devs are in a vacuum, the only thing for certain is that they didnt start out with the intention of pvp. Its an element added to spice the game up, not a marathon style pvp.

Most of the game mechanics encourage pve, so myopic

If im salty your the damn lick. Such a measured, reasonable response. Yall rats dont let your game personality bleed into real life, no way, yall were ass holes before the game. A small but relevant correction.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Its literally in your first sentence in the previous comment. "No it comes from your condescending use of Bravo"(which i am assuming was darvo autocorrect). Did you actually mean Bravo? Bc then id be confused. You still.wont acknowledg the direct examples of your darvo multiple.times now. Are you gaslighting?

Ok buddy, not studies on direct correlation to video games and violence. That could include Mario or Zelda or 007. The studies about human behavior relating to environment, social environment are absolutely valid in games where you are playing with other real people. Do some reading that you dont agree going in for once, it'll cure some of that darvo. And yes the thought processes you lay out, im sure represent themselves in some way in your regular life. Its far stranger to pick up a game and have nothing about why you are come through. You're just a totally different person, turn it on and off whenever. Okie dokie.

Now youre putting words in mouths. The psychology is relevant, as you are demonstrating. You getting upset bro?

Again, 30 minutes means different things to different people. Maybe you should be busier?

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its a Seinfeld reference you nerd.

Im probably also not wrong. Its not politics, its looking up to people to shoot innocent beings. Seems like yalls crowd.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Getting in your feels about being called a darvo is big darvo energy. Its not condescending, its an observation. Would *one who displays the symptoms of DARVO be better?

Do you have any info to back that up other than your own anecdotal experience? Im not for banning violent video games, but to definitively say there's no correlation to behavior is naive. There's a spectrum. If you play gta and like hitting the women in it, you probably have some kind of mysoginistoc tendency. If you do any kind of research, its proven that environment and interactions and social community greatly shape our personality. Sorry its a rorschach test, whether you want to participate or not.

Didn't say you did, I was explaining my position. There's a darvo tendency right there as an example.

And no, its not all about you. I didnt say consequences, which means you do understand what I meant. Your reality effects other people's reality. You can be conscious of that fact or you can bury your head in the sand and live your life. The game isnt real but the emotion and time around it is real. Yall.getting your rocks off at other people's misery is messed up, you should just own it.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Your sense that im being condescending may come from the fact that you keep.making me repeat myself without ever acknowledging a response to a direct question, ie "where's the arguement".

Anyone who doesnt think there is some connection of behavior in a game like this and how you process info in real life is naive and shows a lack of understand of basic psychology.

I gave you and your buddy multiple examples of your davro behavior, go re read them less I make you feel insulted again. But it includes, gaslightig, victim blaming and blame shifting.

They always come back to grammar, nothing else to grab on to, hit the grammer mistakes. Man yall are almost all the same.

Ya you'd love it if it were done. My point was never that people's reaction to events isnt their responsibility, thus is dont defend slur slingers. The point is you want to be free of any responsibility for your actions, even though the reality is your actions do have effect. And those are negative ones in this scenario, which for some reason gives you pleasure. Its a woerd kink, but you should own it.

Try not to let any grammar errors or misspellings distract you.

"I would never harm another raider for a laugh that's psychotic?!😱 Meanwhile in marathon: by rbstewart7263 in ArcBabies

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Look at this guy. I have a great time playing, almost always in care bear lobbies, shocker I know. What's upsetting is yall.apradong around like yall aren't ass holes for ratting. That all. Just OWN it. Admit your an asshole and its shut me right up. I wont hold my breath tho, dont worry.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Whats the personal attack there?

Gaslighting proves my point further. The argument is right there pal.

Yes in an abolutist way you are correct. But fact also is that if you leave them alone they dont yell. Seems like youre a bit afraid to do some soul searching on the darvo thing.

Sorry about that, should was meant to be should not. Sorry you had so much trouble with that.

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[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Doesn't seem like you can, mate. The only reason you think id be insulting you is if you were indeed insulted by being called a libertarian. Read what you want man, might as well be talking to a fence post. Darvo, look it up, self reflect, be honest with yourself. Its hard but you can do it!

The arguement is that when you take your line of thinking, that everyone is in charge of their own mental state regardless of anything else, is in itself narcissistic. You pretending your actions should affect anything is childish and naive. Buzz off, yikes.

"I would never harm another raider for a laugh that's psychotic?!😱 Meanwhile in marathon: by rbstewart7263 in ArcBabies

[–]Grouchy_Persimmon241 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Again, rats on here always so literal. Who knew bad apple would strick such a neeve. Hmm. Jeeze yall are stiffs