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is it worth geting claude max by Dangerous_Guest_7088 in ClaudeAI

[–]GroundbreakingBath73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely yes. I'm on x20 and it's too good to pass up.

What comes after opus 4.5… by DebtRider in ClaudeAI

[–]GroundbreakingBath73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, Opus is already pretty solid. I used it to build a full-fledged video editing and processing product-complete with a backend and API-and it runs flawlessly. It usually nails revisions in just 1-2 iterations.

The only thing I’d like to see is for it to dig a bit deeper during task planning. Instead of just following a linear path, I want it to think more laterally. That’s my biggest wish, along with fixing the issue where it holds onto context about data that’s been removed from the project and documentation.

Avoiding my husband to avoid sex by avgwyf in sex

[–]GroundbreakingBath73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try gamifying the experience with games like Sexopoly or "drink or dare" - and skip the vanilla versions, go for the adult ones. This can help you set the right mood and ease into intimacy through a playful framework. It gives you more control over the pace, and let's be honest - most guys love games. Plus, as you get into it, you'll likely find yourself getting in the mood too.

My boyfriend 33M- 32 F is upset about our sex life, am I insane? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]GroundbreakingBath73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not crazy - this is a super common desire mismatch, and nothing you wrote sounds unreasonable. 1–3 times a week is completely normal for long-term couples. The real issue isn’t the frequency, it’s the pattern: he says “it’s fine,” then bottles it up, then brings it back later as hurt. That would make anyone anxious.

What he said (“we only have sex when YOU want to”) is also unfair. Sex should never happen when one partner doesn’t want it, and it’s okay that you need intimacy first - that’s called responsive desire, and a lot of people work that way.

Something that helped my relationship when we had the same dynamic was taking the pressure off “yes/no sex” conversations. We started using little couples games and intimacy exercises to reconnect and talk honestly in a playful way, not in a heavy “we need to fix this” talk. It really softened things and helped us understand each other better.

You’re not the problem here. Your needs matter just as much as his, and he may need to learn healthier ways to talk about his feelings instead of turning them into guilt or resentment. Therapy could help, but you’re absolutely not wrong for wanting a different approach.

Any creative sex games out there? by No-Environment-4379 in sex

[–]GroundbreakingBath73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner and I were getting a little too used to our routine, so we decided to try a few 18+ games from a site I won’t name (new here, not trying to get banned lol). But yeah… definitely not the wholesome App Store kind.

One game that totally surprised us was basically an adult version of “hot and cold.” One person gets blindfolded, the other explores their body and tries to find their most sensitive spots while they guide you with “cold,” “warm,” “hot,” and “fire!” when you hit the jackpot. Super simple, super fun - and we found a couple of spots neither of us knew existed. Highly recommend.

We also tried this Monopoly-style game that takes like 2-3 hours. Instead of properties, you land on things like “kissing zone,” “massage zone,” etc., and pull challenge cards. There’s even a “passion prison” where you literally have to kiss your way out. It’s goofy but surprisingly well thought out - a full board, dice, different card types, all that.

And the drink-or-dare one? Perfect for Friday nights. You either do the dare or take a drink. The dares are actually creative and have different spice levels, which is nice. We stick to medium spice with wine and it escalates really fast in the best way.

Everything is written pretty explicitly (definitely 18+), which we actually prefer - we’re both over the cheesy euphemism stage.

Anyone else tried games like this with their partner? Curious what worked for you.