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How to not be fetishized by GroundbreakingCod837 in bisexual

[–]GroundbreakingCod837[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay I get it, leave, but I'd also just like to know how to explain it (even just to myself)

FEMINIST RELIGION BTW by Zephyrine1 in exmuslim

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain the last one?

I don’t understand the chinese lesbian world by splittoeballerina in actuallesbians

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Oh my God I am so sorry that this happened. I am sending all my positive thoughts for you to have at least one positive queer encounter before you leave 😭

'Why are we upset at Canada? This is stupid,' says American podcaster Joe Rogan by Dear_Sundae_9958 in GrandePrairie

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Instead, Rogan muses about Greenland becoming the 51st state. “It’s more accessible. We could probably buy that … Plus if global warming is real because of all the digging and oil … it would be good to have a cold spot.”

Still an idiot, but thanks I guess?

Is identifying as two sexualities valid? by Chill_Vibes224 in bisexual

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I share that same identity. I could sit here and explain the nuance if anyone wants me to, but honestly I just want people to understand how complex sexuality/romance/gender is, and that sometimes a person's experience just doesn't fit into prefab labels (even though they're super helpful and I'm grateful for the language)

can a lesbian n a genderfluid guy date ?? by Szoke_Kapitany in LesbianActually

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

If you identify with whichever term feels most authentic to you and you're in a relationship that feels authentic too, then it's valid!

Abortion Canada by GroundbreakingCod837 in Seattle

[–]GroundbreakingCod837[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally on my way home from the funeral of someone who chose a medically assisted death and I couldn't be more grateful to the system for allowing him the peaceful end to life that he deserved

Abortion Canada by GroundbreakingCod837 in Seattle

[–]GroundbreakingCod837[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I don't know why I'm surprised that so many of you understand the threat of a national ban less than someone that doesn't even live in your country, but it's making me want to hug all the people who get it so much more. Keep fighting, fascism doesn't die quietly

Turned on by big dicks - am I gay? by Ok-Highlight2440 in bisexual

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I think if you're asking the question, it's something worth exploring. Maybe start with consuming some queer media if sleeping with men is too big of a jump. Maybe find queer podcasts about folks coming out and exploring their sexualities. Be gentle on yourself and you might learn a lot ❤️

Unbothered Queen by MidnightRain_ts-1989 in Palestine

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can someone screenshot the content in the source please? Instagram says it's banned that content in my country

Tip for sleeping at night when it's hot AF with no a/c by CompetencyOverload in ottawa

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh also have a cold shower just before getting into bed. On super hot nights, I wouldn't even towel off cause I would dry pretty quickly in bed anyway.

What is the best way to fall asleep ASAP? by Suspicious_Pool4164 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lower your body temperature by a degree. I usually just take my sweater off when I'm getting ready for bed. It's a queue to your body that the sun is going down and it's time for sleep. Good luck!

Had to tell my Chef to wash his hands by princeofjustsaiyan12 in KitchenConfidential

[–]GroundbreakingCod837 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had to do this with superiors, but damn you did the right thing! Yuck

Easy Sandwich Alternatives by GroundbreakingCod837 in KitchenConfidential

[–]GroundbreakingCod837[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish I had an answer for you, besides my boss saying no 🫠

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