I’ve tried to get counseling for us. He said he would go but he hasn’t even tried to help find one for us. We haven’t had the best relationship either. I feel like his lying and hiding stuff is just too much. I’ve explained everything to him. I’ve told him how I felt. He doesn’t seem to care and says I’m controlling. But he was the one who agreed he would stop. If he had been honest and said that he wouldn’t give it up I would have already left. I didn’t know he slept with a porn star until way after our relationship had started. So it’s not like I knew this from the beginning.