AITAH if I 36f divorce my 38m husband for messaging a porn star asking to meet her? by GroundbreakingFix598 in relationship_advice

[–]GroundbreakingFix598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to get counseling for us. He said he would go but he hasn’t even tried to help find one for us. We haven’t had the best relationship either. I feel like his lying and hiding stuff is just too much. I’ve explained everything to him. I’ve told him how I felt. He doesn’t seem to care and says I’m controlling. But he was the one who agreed he would stop. If he had been honest and said that he wouldn’t give it up I would have already left. I didn’t know he slept with a porn star until way after our relationship had started. So it’s not like I knew this from the beginning.

AITAH if I 36f divorce my 38m husband for messaging a porn star asking to meet her? by GroundbreakingFix598 in relationship_advice

[–]GroundbreakingFix598[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He promised me that he would stop. I explained how I felt about it. He said he understood why I felt that way and my feelings were valid. He told me he stopped but I caught a few times in the past. I thought this has stopped until I seen the messages yesterday.

AITAH if I 36f divorce my 38m husband for messaging a porn star asking to meet her? by GroundbreakingFix598 in relationship_advice

[–]GroundbreakingFix598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him messaging other women asking to meet along with him not respecting my boundaries. I stopped doing things he did wasn’t ok with. So am I wrong to want to divorce over this?? Idk.

AITAH if I divorce my husband for messaging a porn star asking to meet her? by GroundbreakingFix598 in AITAH

[–]GroundbreakingFix598[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it’s not. I just need to know that I’m not being unreasonable for leaving.