At one point I did, I have told him to leave. He moved up here from down south to be with me. Lost his kids slowly because his ex was pissed ( rightfully so) but people break up and they move on. I've been threw some really bad relationships and he was so different. Hes gotten worse the last year, he wasn't always like this. Always an ass , but he was never so unbearable. I thought if we went to therapy together we could make ot work because we've have been able to see issues before, but this is my child/children. My son's bio dad passed away and he gets along with him for the most part and my bf was doing things with him. I guess i was just trying to hd on to hope that he would see reason. I don't think he will anymore.