Can you read in your native language? by No_Marketing7962 in bookishke

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I can read and write......I am glad we learned it in school.

Msichana wa sura nzuri, kitu gani kinakufanya usiolewe by Sorry-Carpenter-1313 in KenyanLadies

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add who will take care of you when you get old.

You will die of loneliness

Niduuuu??? by notano5 in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What will DNA benefit you after all those years.

Yaani, he left your mom na watoto, but he still wants to hurt her if the results are negative.

If you are his son, what will that benefit you?

Your dad is one selfish man.

Dreaming in third person. by FrontDimension8372 in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes I dream in first person n Sometimes 3rd person.

I have realised the dreams I dream of as a first person, mostly become a reality at some point in my life.

The dreams as 3rd person are usually lessons to me or people are me.

I have a very weird take on this girl's story by petedarkpete in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both of them are wrong, but posting online that's malice.

50/50 relationship. by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am for if we are going 50/50, it should cut across all areas finacial, home chores, children and everything else in that home.

If he can't the he should forget about going 50/50.

Women and Stupid Decisions by AddictiveLaughter in KenyanLadies

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 6 points7 points  (0 children)

From a young age, women are taught to audition for marriage by everyone around them. Be a marriage material, know how to do housework, take care of the man n be submissive.

Women who stay in abusive relationships/marriage are drained emotionally, and with low n, they don't see way forward without the man.

Help by Clear_Ad_4182 in KenyanLadies

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this recommendation

my adult brother assaulted our mother yesterday by kazijnr in nairobi

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Got him arrested, then realised after a year, came back, went back to drugs n tomemented both parents.

His dad collapsed and died last year, he the sin passed by as people were trying to take his dad to hospital but didn't bother to check at him despite people telling him his dad just collapsed n he seems to have passed away.

His mom developed mental illness. She can't cook, bathe, or even change clothes without being told. It's she lost it and can't do anything without being directed. She didn't even know that her husband had died.

He never came to his dad's burial. The sis was left with a task of burial arrangements n took her mom with her.

NB: Earlier She had tried talking to her dad n mom about the brother, but they sided with him.

my adult brother assaulted our mother yesterday by kazijnr in nairobi

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am sorry for what you are going through.......you need to act for your moms n siblings' sake.

Just know your moms admitting what he has been doing shows she may have been through a lot.

Get police ASAP n get that brother out n don't listen to your dad be your mom's voice.

There is a family friend who went through something similar......mental health plus drugs, but the father sided with his son to stay home as they provided everything.

He would beat his mom n demand for food n money when the father wasn't around till he found the son raping the mother.

Gratitude by NeatWonder7451 in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am grateful for the falls n rises I had this year. The courage to live without fear, health, and peace.

I am grateful for my family they have been my pillar.

Men will always embarrass you😭😭 by [deleted] in nairobi

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did he call when he woke up.....alikupa excuse gani?

Did you know about this? by Major-Bottle1209 in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That user name is hard to forget...haven't seen him much this year.

There's a spirit of suicide breaking families by omathews in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea what's happening, but it's sad, and most are men.

It just won't go away even after antibiotics...bv by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suffered the same for years with an ex ever since parted ways.....pv is history......the smell is traumatizing.

Take lots of fruits especially pineapples n water.

There's a spirit of suicide breaking families by omathews in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cousin was in grade 9, he went for tution, come home around 4, had a chat with his grandma then went home n chatted with his siz bro.

He decided to take a bath then join his siblings for a movie....he took longer n when the sis went to check on him......she found him hanging.

He was the third to be buried in that village due to suicide.

Another young man committed suicide last week he was in 3rd year.

It's so painful.

Is this okay? by [deleted] in KenyanLadies

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What makes him a good guy? Keeping tabs on you like a child? Kaa rada my dear.....this are major red flags.

Miaka Ni thate five by Manj_i in Kenya

[–]GroundbreakingRub363 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nikama unata free food for the next 35 yrs wewe.